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Does my boyfriend's female friend like him?
04-27-2014, 11:01 PM
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Does my boyfriend's female friend like him?
My boyfriend Ron and I have been dating for the past 10 months and its going smooth, except for his close female friend Kate. She happens to be an ex of Ron’s best friend Steve but they broke up because of an abortion which was about four years ago, Ron and Kate don’t keep in touch but Ron and Kate remained friends.
Ever since Ron and I went out, she posts pictures of him or them together. Everytime he posts any picture on facebook or someone tags him on a picture, she likes it. What I do find interesting is that whenever Ron or I set a picture of each other, she doesn’t like it. Our pictures are the only ones she hasn’t liked. But when out friend Jack posts pictures of him and his girlfriend, Kate likes them.
In December, Ron told me that Kate wanted to meet me and I liked her.
Two a week ago, Ron and Kate went out for sushi and Ron drove Kate to her boyfriend’s house.
Then a week ago, Ron, Kate, two of their male friends and I went out for wings. Kate poke tickled Ron twice. The second time Ron was laughing and asking joking for my help, I ask him what he wanted me to do, and Kate told me to poke him too. I only see her act like that with Ron.
Two hours ago, Kate put this on her profile: Ron and Thompson(a friend of theirs) are showing their body parts off to each other....::slowly takes sip of beer::
Yet if he wanted her, he’d leave me.
Do you think Kate might like Ron more than a friend or am I overreacting? If Kate likes him, what are signs I should watch out?

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04-27-2014, 11:15 PM
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04-27-2014, 11:17 PM
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Hmmm. Even just reading this makes me uncomfortable. I try to imagine some girl being like this with my boyfriend (one and a half years-ish) and I don't like it at all. You cant be SURE she likes him, but even if she doesn't, I don't think she should be touching any guy but her own boyfriend- and especially not YOUR boyfriend. He's taken. I'm thinking you should have a talk with Ron about her- ask him, calmly, how he would like it if some guy was tickling you and liking all your pictures (except ones with Ron in them) etc. Tell Ron she makes you a bit uncomfortable, and ask him to talk with her. If he doesn't or wont, maybe you should. If she cares about Ron and really values his friendship, she'll want him to be happy- which means, in a way, she'll want your relationship to remain successful. If she doesn't care about him or actually does want him for herself, she'll probably reveal her true feelings to you in one way or another during your talk.
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