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should i tell my friend her hubby is saying inappropriate things on fb?
04-27-2014, 11:02 PM
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should i tell my friend her hubby is saying inappropriate things on fb?
i have a best friend that is like a sister to me. we live 5 hours away so we only see each other like once every 2 months or so but we talk literally 5 times a day. id do absolutely anything for her, and i want nothing but good things for her. well she has a 9 month old son, and is 8 weeks pregnant. her husband and i...get along fine, we've never fought or been rude to each other, but i dont like him much. He has always seemed like a selfish jerk. Never helps around the house or with the baby, he's changed like 1 diaper since his son was born, and never once got up with him at night. Anyways to the point, lately I've seen that he's been posting what I think are inappropriate posts on other girls status's. I have 2 examples. One is a girl who says she is a victoria secret model, and her profile pic is her in a French Maid uniform with her a** hanging out. Her post said "soooo ready to play Wink" and he posted "lets play!!!" which i thought was out of line, because then I saw that he doesn't actually know her she's just adding random guys. The second one was a girl in a skanky outfit with her boobs hanging out and she said "my sexy new shirt" and he posted "damn nice so where u goin?" I interpret these as really inappropriate. I don't think she's seen them because lately she's so busy she hasn't been on fb since he posted them. Should I say something? I just feel torn. Oh and she's not on these girls friends list, and he deleted the part on his page that says "___ posted on ___ page" so only reason i saw it was on my feed, so idk if she'd see it now
The only reason I'm concerned is to me, he doesn't seem honest or faithful, and I'm worried these are just signs that maybe he does go farther or wants to.
LOL so all the guys say no and the women say yes?

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04-27-2014, 11:08 PM
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duh

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04-27-2014, 11:16 PM
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um i don't think so.... i mean it really isn't that much. he's prob just making ajoke with the first one, and the seoncd he's probably just trying to be friendly... idk witht he 2nd one..
but yeah sohe's making a couple inappropriate jokes, so what?
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04-27-2014, 11:19 PM
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YES if this does end up being more she is gonna thank you in the end for helping and if she finds that you knew and DIDN"T tell you then she'll be pissed
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04-27-2014, 11:26 PM
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Be completely absolutely without a doubt 100% IGNORANT
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04-27-2014, 11:33 PM
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Uh duh! He sounds like a total sleezeball. If she dosent beleave you have her go on your profile and look at stuff with you on the phone so she knows whats shes looking for and you can be there for her. Oh and once shes done looking at everything ide change your password asap because she might get mad and change your pass word. Some girls do that. Ide rather my bf be mad at me for a little bit and know the truth then her not. What if he has cheeted in real life and has aids or something?
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04-27-2014, 11:40 PM
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yes tell but have proof record it on your cell i mean leave your cell when you think hell say or do something because maybe she wont belive you because im sure he will deny deny
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04-27-2014, 11:48 PM
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Mainly, considering your strong relationship with your friend and your weak relationship with the husband, I'd have to say yes. Tell your friend, and show her what he has been doing on FB. Some people may think it's best not to get involved as there are some significant risk factors and that it is none of your business but it really is the best thing to do. But how can you say it's not any of your business if it's in public? It would be the proper thing to do for a good friend, and you should ignore the risk factors if you really care about her. If you two are really best friends, then she will trust you and deal with the problem herself.

If you still feel unsure about this, then the second best thing to do would be to wait it out a little bit, see what other things he does before it gets too serious. Bit of a cliche, but better late than sorry! In this case, it would really be better no notify her before any other serious situations develop (Such as the husband actually going above and beyond)
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