My ex-boyfriend can't understand we brokeup.. What should I do?

[Ágnes]

I had a boyfriend for 8 months. Almost a week ago I realised I'm not in love, so I told him on Thursday. He told me "okey, so this was everything and we have to finish it, I'm sorry". And he told me this twice or more. I told him " I'm sorry, I must go now". And he answered: " okey dear, have a nice day, sleep well, take care, I love you!" So I didn't understand this. We finished or not?!
On Friday he called me, and he told me that he can not stand this situation. I told him I don't want to hurt him, because I love him as a friend, but I'm not in love and I don't want to mislead him.. He asked me why am I think we're not a good couple. of course he couldn't understand, and told me if I don't answer, he going to breakup with me, and he will also try to forget me. So like a little child he deleted me on facebook.. -.-" After he added me back, and called me that he so sorry, and he doesn't want to lose me, and he can't broke the contat with me. He told me that I should thinking about this. At the night I told him again that I'm not in love, I want to be just a friend for him. He asked: " nothing will miss from me? really nothing?" I told him of course he'll miss, but this relationship is the worst in the world, we not a good couple..(there were a lot a things which show that he can't trust in me, he can't undertakes our relation...etc.)
soo..I think we brokeup at least twice, but he still tells me " thinking a little, you're still love me ". And when I tell him sorry, I don't want this, he tells me "just think about it". And he still writing like when we were together, in fact now he writes more than that time...
I can't broke the relationship with him, because there is a big group in the nearly big city, and we are in this group. We have friends there, and I think as I he also know that we don't want to lose them due to our broke up...They're very importand in our lives...

[Ovidiu]

Now, normally, even if you do have some mutual friends, breaking up between the two of you does not mean that you cease your relationship with them!
We are all adults, I believe, so that we do know that "divorces" are also a side of the life!...

Regarding the boyfriend who simply doesn't know to take no for an answer, you simply need to cut off everything regarding him!
Unfortunately, it seems that that is the only solution!...