I have a crush ... Please Answer?

[proudcherry650]

Ok I have know this guy since last year. I don't talk to him but he is super cute and a. Lot of girls like him! I've never talked to him before but he looks at me a lot and makes eye contact and he tried to talk to me like three times like once I was talking to my friend that's a guy and he asked the guy that's I was talking with who is he talking to well obviously it's me ? Anyways we never talked and like I said he tried to talk to me but I just freeze up and can't speak up .. I think he wants to know me.. But how can he if I'm so shy. Also my enemy created a rumor saying I stalked him and found his number off fb etc. But it's not true and I couldn't speak up and say it was not me because I was so shy!! so please give me tips or something on what I should do

[Sethorius]

We are all faced with the obstruction that is shyness. But all I can say is that you must cope with the fact that there can only be two general outcomes of your situation, and will you let shyness, a defeat able feeling, to put on the unfavorable outcome? I know you can stop that from happening, one just has to buckle down, stand up, and spat words of victory and confidence form your mouth. And with that rumor story, it seems the true enemy was the urge to hold yourself from speaking out against that false accusation, but that enemy was you. Get past your own impediments and speak to him and let him know that you would like to know him as he does to you! And you will be very thankful you did. I hope I was able to help, could you by any chance answer my single question I posted?

[Alondra]

Is better for you to speak now or you never will. Everyone goes through anxiety, I am also shy myself. But you need to talk to him or else some other girl will try to take your place, and you wont like that. I know is difficult to talk to your crush and you get all so nervous, But take a deep breath count to ten and it will work. Think positive about yourself, don't think that it will all go wrong. Don't try to bring your esteem down. And if you let your enemies bring you down and you stay quiet and say nothing at all.He or she will keep doing it again. Who cares if they judge you or whatever just remember when someone judge another their judging themselves as well.

[samrock]

I was once shy since last year but now I've been starting to "come out of my shell". I realized that I was always honking about what other people were thinking about me. That's not the case. They are actually worried about themselves too much to even worry about you. Plus everyone gets nervous around a lot of people sometimes whether it's public speaking etc. so there's really no reason to be shy. Study yourself, when someone walks up to the front of the class and writes on the board in school, are you really caring about them? No and neither is anyone else. Think about how you think of other people in situations where you would get nervous. Your not really even paying attention to them. So just speak up to him! Tell him " sorry that I'm so shy all the time". He will understand. He's just like any of your other friends. Think of it that way. You can overcome shyness. I did and and so can you. Here's 2 link to also help: http://m.wikihow.com/Not-Be-Shy
http://m.wikihow.com/Stop-Being