Do I have the right to be mad when my lover is clearly ignoring my texts and face book messages?

[agreeablegate258]

We have been on and off for few years and we live 4 hours apart.however we recently reconncted a month ago.He told me that misses me and he was having dreams about me.However after a while he was responding to my texts most of the time so I started to send him face book messages just to have a convo with him but 99 % of the time he would ignore me.I know that because on fb when a message is seen it shows.I know he could be busy so I would give him couple days to respond then he doesn't respond until I say something else then if I am luck he would respond but most of the time he would ignore me.However,he sent me a message last time that he might come to visit me the following week but he had to wait until he sees his schedule to be sure.Then I told him that I am booked to work those days but available the following week and if he is free we can meet up then. Well he didn't respond to this message.I messaged him and asked him few days later what days he is mostly available but he didn't respond to the message ofcourse it showed he read the message.I then waited fewdays and asked him how is work but he didn't respond to me.He is very active on fb so it was obvious that he was ignoring me I then lost my cool and snap and asked him why he is not responding to me and told him that I don't like how is treating me.Ofcourse he read the message and didn't respond to it.I then decided to delete him on my fb and haven't talked to him since.Did I overreacted

[Ari]

I only needed to read half of your paragraph to come to the conclusion that he's just not that into you.

[Ti]

I don't think you over-reacted. I think you are precisely within your right to feel that he has ignored you. I would like to go on and say that he sounds as though he has been stringing you along just to get some attention from you as in when he can visit. You are better off without this one., imo. A woman should expect to find a man who loves her and cares for her above and beyond what many of us probably ever experienced. I want you to be with that guy. Think about the qualities of what you want and attract him. Think positive and feel strong and good about finding the one who deserves you. Your love is priceless. Protect it. Be well and be positive!!

[AL]

Ari is right--he's boinking another chick but wants to string you along, just in case..

[Tapestry6]

No

[HollyPaw]

No you did not. This person does not show you enough interest in return. Nobody wants an inattentive guy,or one who ignores you. Move on to one who cares and cares enough to show it. ~*

[Vertigo]

Not really. Even a blind person can see that he's taking you for a long ride to no where. What you should have done is at least said to him that you've had enough of his playing and decided that it's not for you, if only for the upkeep of your good character. In any case though, you did the right thing.

[Neo]

" on and off for few years"

That is all the answer you need. If you two were important to each other, you wouldn't be on and off for years.