Guys can you please answer this for me? I need to know what you as a guy would think?

[nicelumber120]

Okay okay so me and this guy I liked hooked up last year. We were friends for a year then we met in person blabla then he became indifferent with me after we met :/. (I gave him my virginity btw) So yeah it hurt a little. we attempted to talk make things work but he just didn't try so it kind of fell flat. Then in September 2013 we completely stopped talking for a month, I told him we needed time apart. So after that month we started talking (emailing, he responded probably every four days sometimes after a week) and then again we just stopped talking until he messaged me on valentines day saying happy valentines day and we started emailing again . It still wasn't the same and I could feel it. So last month I just emailed him telling him I couldn't do this any more and that it feels like we're just acquaintances and not friends. So we haven't talked in a while.

I kind of want to add him on facebook though. I don't want anything, I just want to see what his upto and just have a method of contact if I wanted to talk to him.

Keep in mind, I did once send him a message on there and he didn't reply, didn't bother reading it either. Soooo. Would he find that creepy or weird?
I kind of want to see if he would be remotely interested in being us again. Just friends. He has a girlfriend

[Creep]

If you ask him, he mite friend you. Weird? I wouldn't think so. You'll gonna come across as nosey. He has a gf now. So if you wanna be fb friends to spy on him and his gf, then that wouldnt be a good idea. Your just gonna hurt yourself. It would be best to not know what he's doing. It'll just drive you nuts knowing what he's doing and your not there, cause it sounds like you still have feelings for him.
Sucks, I know.