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Does this fb convo sound like she's cheating?
04-28-2014, 12:39 AM
Post: #1
Does this fb convo sound like she's cheating?
Does this fb convo sound like she's cheating?
I already posted this Q, but I edited it so I could get better answers.

Lately she's been really weird, and distant. Talking to me less, texting less, seeing me a little less. So like a really close friend of mine who is a girl, told me to check out her fb. So I got on it and saw this convo. I don't know if she's just being really nice, or like, she likes the kid? He calls her babe and i love you?

****How should I confront her about this, uh this agustin kid doesn't have a girlfriend and she met him a couple weeks ago from her sister, and my close friend who told me to check her fb doesn't even know my girlfriend**** ALSO she left for PCB and I won't see her until next thursday):

11:55pmMe
hey dork <3
why didnt you talk to me on here ?(;
11:55pmAgustin
haha idk dork <3
Wink
11:55pmMe
hahaha(;
i like your pic cutie (:
12:03amAgustin
hahaa naa i hate it i dont like taking picturesSmile
12:03amMe
why not ?(:
12:05amAgustin
idk haha im just bad at taking pictures
12:05amMe
nah(;
12:08amAgustin
hahaaSmile so how was the test babe?Smile\
12:09amMe
idk yet .. i think i failed tho
12:09amAgustin
omg hahaa what happens if you fail it?
12:10amMe
i dont no ..
12:11amAgustin
maybe you'll be in 9th grade with me babeSmile
12:12amMe
>:O
not goog love ya and all but Sad
12:13amAgustin
yea sorry well i hope u pass the test babySmile
12:16amMe
((;
12:34amMe
haha(;
12:36amAgustin
i canNOT wait till highscoooolWink
12:38amMe
youll be a freshie (;
12:39amAgustin
yes i willWink
12:39amMe
haha(;
12:46amAgustin
hahaaSmile
1:00amMe
yeah youll get lost tho ((; ill help tho(:
1:02amAgustin
how r u goign to help me? ur in 10th gradeSmile
1:02amMe
so (:
its not by grade you can have classes with me fool (:
1:03amAgustin
omg!!?? really?? thats sooo coollSmile)
hahaaWink
1:04amMe
((: and since im not to bright i prolly will be in a most freshmen class so yeah Big Grin
1:11amAgustin
babee text meSmile i gtg i'll text u bye love uu(:<3
1:11amMe
mkay bye ((;
Even when she talks to me she doesn't use that many smileys...

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04-28-2014, 12:48 AM
Post: #2
 
No. It seems like the guy is trying really hard though.

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04-28-2014, 12:54 AM
Post: #3
 
well, it sounds to me like she fancies the dude. that's obvious flirting there. i wouldn't say she's cheating though, because then she'd try talking to him as little as posible on facebook where everyone can see it. you should just break up with her before she breaks up with you. sorry :\ good luck...
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04-28-2014, 12:57 AM
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Holy! How can you even understand that conversation?!?! There are too many symbols! I'm 25, I shouldn't feel old yet! Anyway, no I do not think she is cheating on you but I do think that the guy is into her.
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04-28-2014, 01:00 AM
Post: #5
 
Dump that shiat but she was prolly just being nice. But all those emoticons and hearts I could not take that!!!!
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04-28-2014, 01:02 AM
Post: #6
 
Right this is just my opinion, so do take other opinions in consideration-

But if i saw this on my boyfriend's facebook i would not be impressed at all! & along with all that she has been doing with you. I would ask her strait upfront.. "Do you still like me? & do you still want to be with me? Am i doing anything wrong?" Don't tell her you fb stalked her because she will think your mega creepy, and it's bad enough you fb hacking her! But if she asks why Explain what you had said in the first paragraph of this question to her and maybe this way you will get the answers you need.
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04-28-2014, 01:08 AM
Post: #7
 
SHES CHEATING....or you may not be as satisfiying anymore :/ if you guys have been dating and shes drifting away its maybe cause she think your boring. try and spice up your guys relationship. it may also be because she was just bored. alot of girls like to mess with guys like that, just cause they are easy to mess with. ask her what she thinks of agustin. if she doesnt wanna talk about it, shes hiding something then theres more going on but if she just brushes it off and is like "oh him hes just a cute little kid" then its probably nothing
but you should confront her fast
before the situation gets worse.....hope this helps

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04-28-2014, 01:11 AM
Post: #8
 
The real question isn't whether she's cheating, but rather do you trust her. Do you? This could be a harmless flirtations between really good friends. They actually never say anything really incriminating and keep it pretty chill. In any case, you actually went into her FB and checked to see if she's cheating on you which means you don't trust her. Don't ever stay in a relationship where there isn't any trust. Do you really want to spend all your time apart from her wondering who she's talking to, what she's thinking about, who she's been doing things with? You're young, move on to the next one, this one isn't worth it.

Also, since this question is a re-post, it means you don't want to actually end the relationship. In the end, only you can make that decision. Stay with her and always wonder, or leave her and feel broken hearted for a few weeks. We can give you opinions, but the final answer really lies with you.
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04-28-2014, 01:17 AM
Post: #9
 
naww all girls flirt like that trust me they all do, she may think he is hot but i dont think you guys will brake up cuz of him
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