I know my mother loves me, but I can't deal with this.?

[Anna Kate]

My mother is a single mom, and she pretty much has raised me as best as she could, and she's done an amazing job. I love her very much. But, Things have always been crazy. All through out elementary school, my mother was on my tail constantly. She would yell at me if I ever came home with dirt on my clothes from playing outside... When I was 5. If I didn't have all A's, HIGH A's, in my class, she would go nuts. (I made a 78 on a test my seventh grade year and she blessed me out at cheerleading practice) I was so nervous taking tests. I would be the last kid in the room taking a test before going to break, frantically making sure I got everything right. And in some way I'm still like that about everything.. And I'm 19 and in college. I still live at home, and she will get on these random yelling fits.. Well she really yells about everything. And the yelling she does it's like ear drum busting. She's logged into my twitter, Instagram, and FB account.. And reads my messages.

[Charlotte]

You could protect all your online accounts and she probably just wants you to do well in life.

[Kiara]

Your an adult now, so you should really tell her how you feel and take charge. Be your own person! Block her on your social networking if you must. Its your life, you only have one, be happy while you live it and be proud when you can tell her the truth, that being hyper-active mom isn't needed now, or was it ever really. Tell her she stresses you out and its bad her not only her health to be worrying constantly, but yours also.
My mom has always been like this. With that + many other things I tried to kill myself. After that she actually got much worse. But after I told her a couple of days ago that I really just don't like her (I will always love her cause she's my mom) but I don't like her as a person, she is really hurt. Be careful not to hurt your mom. It will change her forever. My mom is really messed up, not gonna lie. I hope things go well..

[Pearl L]

move out

[Kevvy Talks]

Okay, that's intrusive. You shouldn't be allowing this kind of behavior from your mother. I know you love her, but she can't be watching your every move for the rest of your life. You need to let her know that you are an adult now and you don't need her pushing you to achieve. Stressing you to reach higher can be very taxing emotionally. You should be content that you tried your best at the end of a test. Not worn thin from anxiety.
Start by blocking her from your twitter, Instagram, and FB accounts. If you she tries to get into a confrontation with you, don't indulge her. Walk away. You have rights to your privacy and that's it. You're not perfect. Don't let your mother convince you that any little imperfection is going to disadvantage you in life. If it bothers you too much, maybe you should think about moving out soon.