I'm having serious problems. Please help? :( sincere answers please?

[faithfulmagic435]

So 9 days ago, my gf that is now my ex gf, decided she was going to go behind my back and start talking to other guys and stuff. Obviously this is not okay so I called it off. This was was 2 days before our 17 month anniversary... </3 the worst part about this is that she lied to my face about it when I asked her. She continued to talk to guys on fb and ends up giving her # away and yeah. Do with that as you please.
I was trying to work it out and stuff until today when I was with one of my guy friends and I decided I wasn't going to stay around and play her games anymore. She ended up deleting my off fb for, well basically because I was done playing her games. I mean it was so bad that most of her closest friends were even telling me to just walk away and move on to something better. They couldn't even tell what happened to her. Am I wrong for wanting to walk away? She says she wants to try to fix it now that I decided I didn't want to wait anymore, what does that mean?

And to top it all off, I saw my old best friend (she's a girl) today. Her and I haven't talked in over a year because my now ex gf and her didn't get along. I've always had a secret crush on her and today she seemed to be flirting with me: touching my arm, she put her leg on me when I was taking her home (her tire was flat and didn't have a spare), she was telling me I should kiss her (which I didnt), ect. I was thinking of asking her on a date this weekend to see where things go. Good or bad idea?

[AbstractHDx]

Gooood idea! Forget about your ex. She screwed up. You have a perfect opportunity, you and a girl both like each other. Go for your 'old best friend.'

[Lucy]

Honestly you&#x27;ve done the right thing by walking away in my opinion, even if you did get back the trust would be gone. I say if she&#x27;s deleted you from fb, then she&#x27;s done you a favour to give you a fresh start.

Ask this other girl out on a date but take it slow, don&#x27;t rush into anything, give yourself time.

[Harper]

Great idea about asking out your best friend. Trust me ive gone a long time without talking to my best guy friend and take it from a girl that if we are flirting with you when we see you again then we want it to go somewhere. at least on a date. even if you dont end up asking her out dont ever let it be a year before you talk again. you never know what will happen if you just talk. your now ex needs to be your ex. she was being a jerk and if she really regrets what she did then why didnt she realize she was making a mistake a long time ago. she doesnt deserve someone who was loyal and a good bf for over a year. im not saying you should be mean/rude to her but i dont think she deserves another chance right now. i hope i helped >.< God luck!!!

[DropBeatsNotBombs]

1for the money 2 for the go 3 to get ready and 4 to go

I think that&#x27;s how it goes anyway go with the old best friend the ex gf lost her chance bro

[Megan]

Tell you're ex she's going to have to really prove to you she's going to stop talking to other guys if she is serious about working things out. And that until then, you need to take a break.

Ask your friend on a date and see how that goes. Don't mention your now ex girlfriend to her really unless she asks and even then don't say much, especially if you and your friend stopped talking because your now ex didn't like her. It would be a touchy subject for your friend.

If it doesn't work out with your ex - she either keeps talking to guys, or you decide she isn't worth your time anymore - don't get too upset. Obviously it sucks because you were together for 17 months but if it isn't right at least you know you aren't wasting your time on the wrong girl anymore. If your friend says yes to a date and it goes well then ask her to hang out again or to another date and start spending more time with her. You know what they say, when one door closes, another one opens!

Hope this helps, good luck =)

[Pieman]

If a gf betrayed me, like that, I'd dump her, then disown her as a friend, ect.