save me!!!!?

[Thunderousmother796]

i have lots of problems and i dont know how to sort them out


im 16 years old and my mom is just so misunderstanding. VERY. even my father says that
she understands things in a different way its just her way of thinking.
she usually doesnt really care about my feelings she care about hers more
she cares about stupid things, like instagram!!!! going out and i tried to be honest with her but
she misunderstands again and it turns into a big deal.
i have an autistic brother and she cares but not like she should i mean not enough! she's very
dramatic and doesnt help me and my father to solve and to deal with my brother its hard for me to deal
with my little brother and a mom like this plus school!!! help?

[lawomicron]

She might be a bit autistic too (but not diagnosed, or not severe enough to qualify for a formal diagnosis), as it tends to run in families. That might be why she understands things in a different way.

If she understands things in a different way, try to figure out the way she understands things and adapt the way you communicate with her to account for this.