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Please help my friend won't talk to me. !0 points for best answer.?
04-28-2014, 01:24 AM
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Please help my friend won't talk to me. !0 points for best answer.?
Yesterday i went to school and my best friend wouldn't talk to me. Anytime i tried to speak she would walk away. When we worked in groups she wouldn't work with me. She was fine with me when i got off the bus on Thursday and i hadn't said or done anything. I messaged her on facebook, she saw the message but didn't reply. I don't know what to do. 10 points for best answer xx Its half term now so i won't see her until school starts again.

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04-28-2014, 01:27 AM
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You need to make her talk... Hold her arm and say "obviously your not happy with me, what did I do and how can I fix it"

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04-28-2014, 01:37 AM
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Maybe something happened at home if she isn't talking to anyone, but if it's just you then maybe she had heard something, like maybe you said something to someone, accidentally did something to hurt her, or there are rumors that she heard. If you have say the home phone number try talking to her mom, dad, brother, or sister. You can also ask other friends if she's said anything about you or why she wouldn't talk to you, or maybe did she get upset after they said something to her. Also, keep trying to talk to her. Ask her what's wrong, try to be there for her. You can even try to get permission from her parents to come to her house to talk to her face to face alone.
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04-28-2014, 01:44 AM
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she might be having a bad weak and is putting you in the whole mix give her time she will soon forget about it and make sure you stop her and say we need to talk but in a serious tone then talk to her about what is wrong hopefully that works. good luck
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04-28-2014, 01:45 AM
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sometimes we can all fall out best friends boyfriends/ girlfriends. we all have our ups and downs and to me this sounds as though something has happened to her nothing to do with you, maybe in her familly, or you spending to much time together and not with other friends, or it could be she's jealous of you.

I have know my best mate for twenty six years there are times I see her and other times I don't. You situation is simlare to mine where my best friend refused to answer texts chat to me on face book, and that's when I found out that I was doing all the chasing and she couldn't be arsed, she only wanted to have dinner at my family's house because she lived at home with her family. Currently before that she lived with her boyfriend and step daughter in her own house and I was single at the time but didn't mind going to visit her in her house on several occasions. The minute she split with her fella I got a bloke and still with him dating for 15 months and I also have a little gal 6yrs. She also had lots of miscarriges and wanted babies of her own and i felt sorry sorry for her I bought her things to cheer her up and was always there for her.

Last time i saw her and it was all about her self, and had no interest in me whatsoever. I am happy I have other friends and if she wants to get back in touch she knows where I am I will not text her anymore and if she don't reply so be it I have done my bit.

Yo need to do the same lily it might take your friend time to come round you could ask another friend that she is ignoring you they may know somethings up, but please don't chase her you could make matters worse she could be jealous of you, that's why you need to give your bestie space and wait for a response, she will notice ignoring her and she may come up to you and want to talk.If not there is nothing you can do move on find other friends to hang out with.

Friends change from time to time some grow away for you and true friends will be there for you.
I am 26 and believe me I came off face book and I am glad a did my friends where bitching
amongst one another and it was from then on I found out who my real friends where Things change
in life including people, but it is the people you trust that you should remain friends with.

It's not your fault shes ignoring you, and don't worry it has happened to me in the past my bestie
got in to fowl moods, so i found another mate who I am also good friends to with right now.

You need to get answers from others as it seems to me she will refuse talking to you. Did you forget anything birthday or special occasion or even make a promise that you may have forgotten maybe
this will resolve your issues with her best of luck and I hope you get it sorted

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