Is it ok if I'm mad because my boyfriend flirts with other girls on Fb?

[littlesummer548]

Hey I'm sorry this is kinda long but please read if you can I really need advice.. I'm in a long distance relationship and yes I know that this type of things are prone to happening because I have no control over his actions in person but on fb I mean it really hurt when i saw his messages with other girls and I saw them because he gave me his password a long time ago so I could see his messages and know that he doesn't talk to girls I told him it's ok if he talks to other girls and has female friends but he always told me that he doesn't get along with girls and I'm his only girl..and he's my only guy and I'm serious I don't even talk or desire to have contact with any other guy because I'm shy and really don't like guys idk but anyway I wasn't lying but I think he was cus that one time I logged in he had convos with other girls but way before we started dating so it was ok I guess .. and that one time back then when he gave me his password I told him that I wouldn't log in ever again because I trusted him and so I did until yesterday I just felt curious he told me it was ok if I did sometime again and promised he wouldn't talk to girls again cus I acted jealous just to tease him nothing serious I don't get jealous at all that was about 5 months ago but now i logged in again I saw recent convos with other girls and some of them were normal but some of them were umm kinda flirty I guess... He was having normal friendly conversation but in between he would call her pretty or he would be like hey beautiful another one was hey thanks for your cute messages blah blah I appreciat them :3 love ya so much beautiful ..BTW I'm translating cus they r in Spanish so the love you part is like the kind u would say to a friend but still! That's as far as I read cus honestly idk why I just broke up in tears I'm not a sensitive girl but this got to me -.- OK so I cried for a while but the next day I acted like nothing happened and decided to give him a chance but logged in again just to read a bit more and see if it was serious or what but I found worst convos with this other girl he would joke about how cute her Lil cheeks were and shed be like yes u always squeeze them etc so he does get along with girls then one of them that I won't forget was that she sent him a message like this..if me and you were in a small room and the lights suddenly went out would you 1)kiss me 2)stare at me 3) hug me 4) rape me and he said "hmm well 1-2-3-4-4-4!!!! jk :3" So yes I just cried the whole night I didn't even read more cus I was feeling really sick and bad for some reason I just felt so sad not because he thinks about cheating on me but because I was so stupid to believe him I've tried to break up with him a bunch of times cus I honestly hate being in a relationship but he begged and cried for me to stay he says that he wants his future with me cus I'm the perfect girl and I don't even want any of that but hes always being so nice and sweet and talking about our future etc but right now I just feel like dumping him and I'm currently ignoring him so please I really need advice :'( should I dump him or am I over reacting? This is my first relationship and it was awesome he's the only guy that has ever caught my attention with his personality and what not but now I feel betrayed... If this ends I swear I won't have another relationship ever again! Btw I'm 15 yes I know i'm young and he's about to turn 16 and I've told him a bunch of times that this relationship is retarded but he won't listen and he cries like literally cries over phone or while video chatting or he will constantly send me messages about how much he loves me every time I talk about leaving so idk what to do!! Help! Yesterday i was acting cold with him and he said that he feels bad when i do that cus mayb im getting tired of him and we need time i told him that we need some time but then he started crying and begged for me not to leave ever but im so mad im just ignoring his messages today..idk what to do Thanks for any advice I really appreciate it!

[Jay]

dump this loser that is cheating in relationship you don,t bring other guys or girls in the picture and no one is safe with this guy not you or the other girls he talks to and not every guy flirts with girls on facebook and for the record people don,t have to have sex to cheat

[Bob]

Only you can make the decision but I think you should dump him. First of all, it's completely ok to be mad at him because that's a little more than just friendly talk. And second, I would dump him right away because:

-He lied to you
-A long distance relationship isn't ideal especially as a teen
-He's probably done more than just Facebook

You seem like a really nice girl and it seems like you want to believe he's still good, but don't do that cause it's just gonna hurt you more. You deserve someone much better than him.