HELP - why is he messing with me?

[Samantha]

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING WITH HIM. So PLEASE don't say that.
I DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH HIM.


My ex and I got into this HUGE fight 2 months ago, where mean things were said on both sides and I thought he didn't want to be friends or whatever.
We didn't talk for 2 months.

We play in the same soccer league on sundays, and 3 weeks ago, I saw him and tried talking to him but all he said was "sorry, can't talk"


I was blocked on Facebook.
So I guess he unblocked me

On Friday, he messaged me on Facebook, saying "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…."
So we were kind of texting for a little bit but then he stopped responding… lol

Why would he message me?? And then stop responding after a little? Lol


So I messaged him on Facebook Saturday and said "so since you obviously won't say anything, until you hear what I wanted to say - I don't understand why that argument (the one I apologized for) made us stop being friends or whatever lol" but he read it last night and didn't respond...

And then yesterday (Monday), he blocked me again….
What was the point of even messaging me if he was going to block me again??
Why is he playing games with my head and ******* with me??

[Thomas]

That does not sound like games. The object of playing games would be to get with the girl not drive her to a point of leaving. Then again he knows he gonna see you again at the games. You need to fire back with something hurtful.

[Nicole]

He's not worth your time!! If he's gonna be weird like that, then just move on!

[Jeremy]

Do you even know what "LOL" means? Why is it used in a context that denotes a serious conversation? Are you laughing when you're angry?

You are wrong. THIS HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH BEING WITH HIM. Read that last sentence again please. People can only mess with your head if you let them, clearly you aren't over this guy. Keep lying to yourself all you want, but the proof is right here. He could care less what you have to say and you are the one trying to contact him. If it's so important to you that he's out of your life, why don't you block him from Facebook and change your number? Find another soccer league. Change your schedule so that you don't have to see him again. This argument needs no explaining. Stop trying to contact him to explain it. Let it go.