I need help figuring this girl out.?

[Flameboy]

Okay so I need help finding out what this girl is thinking. There's a lot of information but I'll try to be brief. So I met this sophomore(let's call her sophia) my freshmen year in high school and I was dumbfounded. I mean she was the most beautiful girl I had ever met. I was really shy back then and it took me a while to get the courage to talk to her but I eventually did and wow! She was a talented artist, was into multiple hobbies into a lot of the same randoms as I was, I'm not sure what it was, maybe it was how much we had in common but I clung to her every word. When she spoke I paid attention, which was a first for me because before then I just let my hormones do the talking. But this girl was different I really cared for what she had to say. We only had one class together and we hung out with different friends but we spoke when we could. Looking back I feel like an idiot, I should have made more of an effort to talk to her. Anyways this went on for two more years when my junior year I finally felt comfortable to ask her out to see a movie(yes I was still as shy as mouse) and she said yes. Haha! that day I never stopped smiling, I don't think I ever remember being so happy. Unfortunately things didn't work out. We couldn't get in touch and we missed out on the movie. About a week later she asks me if I wanted to see another movie with some of her friends. I say yes, and that also didn't work out. I watched the Avengers alone that day(great movie btw). At that point I decided to sack up and tell her that I had feelings for her and asked if those feelings were mutual. She responded by saying that she wasn't really looking for a relationship at that time, which back then I thought was a way of saying " I'm not interested in you but I don't want to hurt your feelings"(more on this later). So after that we talked less and less until things eventually came to a halt. During that same year she goes to the prom with this other guy, doesn't develop into anything. I thought things were over when out of the blue this year( haven't seen her in months) she asks me to come to her Halloween party. I say yes, I get there with some of her other friends and we all have a great time. During the party it comes out that she's never kissed anybody before, which I though was weird cause she looks stunning. Anyways at the end of the party she tells me that we should hang out more often which I think is a good sign. So a week later or so I send her a message to she if she wanted to go bowling(roman anyone?) she says yes, we meet up and have a great time. Next week same thing. Couple weeks later we go lazer tag after that we go see a movie. We're spending more and more time together and I start to think things are looking up again. Then on new years I see this post on facebook made by this guy(let's call him brian) " couldn't ask for a better way to start the year" with it is accompanied a picture a piece of paper with "yes" written on it. Sure enough a day later that guy entered a relationship( at least facebook wise) with sophia, but not the other way around. I start thinking that I misjudged the situation again. But then a few weeks later brian is no longer in a relationship with sophia. I start to think that there might have been some truth to her previous statement of not looking for a relationship, maybe she's not looking for one or maybe guys like brian deter her from one. This realization doesn't make me falter, I decide I'm still going to try. Continuing on, recently we got some coffee and some interesting information came up while we were talking. It came up that she hated women for some reason(thought vaginas were gross) We were also talking about what would you do if you woke up as the opposite sex one day. First thing we both say(and I think everyone would)...masturbate. then she says that she doesn't know how to masturbate and never has, and that she watches little porn. Which I'm inclined to believe because she was basically a guy until the seventh grade(she can even pee standing up, how cool is that!?). She is a very open person, she'll talk about anything , it's like she has no boundaries. I kinda of admire that. At the same time she's very shut in. She's 19 and never kissed a guy or even masturbated. I thought all girls masturbated, at least ocassionally?! I just can't put a finger on her. Other girls are so easy to read. I just don't know what to think. Is she into me? Is she really not looking for a relationship? Should I just continue being friends at least for now? The last thing I want to do is make her uncomfortable. I just need advice on how to deal with this.

[Matthew]

Yeah dude, this girl definitely likes you. I'm in your situation, but I'm at the "asking her out" part. Literally the same story as you almost. That's awesome! You can get her I know you can. Let's hope I can too.

[♥BelleBells♥]

Your a great guy. I can tell. Any girl die to be with you. You seem very down to earth. I honestly think that she wasn't ready for a relationship back then, but i think shes ready for one now. I do think she likes you. Any girl willing to talk about sexual things with you, obviously likes you. I think she thinks your attractive too, and i really really think it will work. Try talking to her about this. Invite her to your house, and make her dinner. Idk. Girls like that. I really enjoyed reading your story.