Online dating!!?

[Ann]

I think I am being catfish, I google image but the photos are legit.
The person said they lived in nYc but the cell number is New Jersey. Doesn't want to talk. No facebook or iG I search the number google have me an address and a man's name. I asked if the person was a posing as someone else and they denied it.
What do you think?

[temetria]

If you feel like they aren't being real with you, move on. They are most likely hiding something. Don't waste your time trying to coax them into anything because they'll keep making up excuses and you're probably smitten with this person so you'll keep buying their bs when you could be with someone that's real and made just for you.

[hanni]

I always think if it's too good to be true it doesn't exist. All the real people you will meet will probably skype/video chat with u.
With the technology we have today it's not that hard to prove you're real.

[TRIGGER]

Is his name Mike?

[Meg]

Tell the person to take a picture of themselves holding up a piece of paper with your name on it. If they are genuine they will be happy to do it and be able to prove themselves. I've had people fake me and i've had to prove myself to the people they have talked to.

[Key]

Honestly, unless they can truly prove to you that they are the real deal, don't bother with them, I have nothing against online dating but when someone is hiding themselves like that you just can't trust them, yeah you can still be friends with them but I wouldn't go as far as a love relationship with someone like that. I always say that if you question something like that, then something is wrong almost every time.

[Educated]

Trust your gut! If they refuse to talk on the phone or meet in real life then assume that they are a liar and baiting you and cut ties.

[Kittysue]

If they won't talk on the phone or Skype they are fake!!! Cut off all contact and report their profile to the site
Any real person would want to Skype with you to make sure YOU also weren't fake