Boyfriend avoiding telling me where he is staying for friend's Bachelor Party ?

[CrazyBig250]

Boyfriend avoiding telling me where he is staying for friend's Bachelor Party ?

My boyfriend of 4 years is concerning me, because he is avoiding telling me the name of the hotel he is staying at for his friend's 3 day Bachelor Party.

He over 1k miles away right now at a popluar beach destination.

We're were texting on Facebook a little while ago and when I asked him a 2nd time where is staying, he signed off.

I already asked him where he was staying before he left and he played dumb.

Is this suspicious sounding ?

Also before he left he went wild getting a sunless tan so he wouldn't look pale and went ona mini diet too.
I dont care where hs staying but he knows this is a practical matter because Im taking care of his sick dog.
In case I need to call him and his old cell phone goes out, I can only reach him FB, which he cant see if his phone is out.
I let him know a big sale I made today for my mobile app business and reiterated my question.
He only replied congrats.
Time for movie and homemade mojito to take my mind off this!

[Taylor]

I would definitely let him know my concerns, but I would also realize that it is a bachelor party, and guys go have fun without their girls for the night... You should only be worried if he has given you a
legit reason to worry....

[Jim]

Not sure but sound's like he is hiding something.

[Ricardo]

Did he buy a new speedo? He is probably staying at a gay resort, an all male hotel. I am now more sure your bf is bi curious and checking out his bi side. The issue is not the sick dog. The issue is bf is incognito. He is definitely shacking up. I bet he is having marathon sex. The place might be clothes optional, hence the tan.

[Eva]

Leave his ass and show him whos boss. Some Men just dont care

[Schuyler]

You either trust him or you don't; either way at this point you need to stop contacting him, let him be, then see how you feel when he comes back.

[fatrake735]

When a man suddenly (1) starts being secretive about his whereabouts and having unexplained absences, and (2) also becomes much more concerned with his clothing, grooming, and general appearance, it's a pretty good guess that cheating is on his mind.

It's NOT an issue of "either you trust him or you don't" but a matter of "Is his behavior such as to earn your trust?" Now really, your partner slims down, tans, runs off to a secret resort destination to party, and you're supposed to just TRUST that she/he isn't up to shenanigans? Pul-lease.

[Messykatt]

If you're taking care of his sick dog, and he won't even give you his location in case of emergency, I'd say you have a much bigger problem than a bachelor party.

My husband is a doc, and he left Monday for a 2 week stint in the Caribbean to work with some local clinics and bring supplies. I have in front of me a detailed itinerary of every day of this visit. Do you see what I'm trying to get across?