Boyfriend messaging other girl?

[Mel]

I just saw my boyfriend send a message to one of his girlfriends via Facebook.. We are long distance and he doesn't know I remember his fb password as he told me, so every now and then il look.. He was talking to a friend n says "Throw on something VERY sexy and take pictures of yourself. That always makes me feel better, Lol" I'm so upset and don't know if I can tell him. We were just on skype n I started crying but couldn't say why.

[LisaC]

Your bf is a dog and you should leave him. With that said, you should've respected his privacy and NOT go through his messages. HOWEVER, the fact that you felt you had to snoop proves that you had reason not to trust him and without trust the relationship is doomed anyway.

Sorry but grab your ice cream and a good comedy girl.