Why dont I have any real friends?

[Madsuit176]

Plz this might be long but i really need your help. Im a girl and currently 17 years old and im a real outsider in my school. I go to a very fancy school with a lot of snobby people and i only have two real friends there. I dont belong there. Im the exact opposite of snobby. I wear band tees and im thinking of dying my hair pink. I would descrebe myself as fairly pretty and kind of average. Outside of school i have a huge amount of friends. These friends are mostly guys, because i dont get along with a lot of girls. After a while some of my friends start to develop feelings for me and most of the time i dont feel the same way, so a lot of friendschips are ruined with that. And also i have a habbit of losing some friends, because they dont contact me anymore and i dont contact them. But recently i discovered that i actually dont have real friends. It was my birthday and it was really crap bc a family member died a few days before. The first thing i did when i woke up was checking facebook. I have to inform you that i am NOT a facebooker. I stopped adding friends when i was 14 or something and only add really close friends of me as a facebook friend, so i have like 340 friends. When i checked i didnt have a lot of birthday wishes, so i figured i would wait until the en of the day to check my birthday wished and when i did i only had 40 wishes, while i normally have like 100. Everyone that i consider a close friend had forgot and i dont know what to do. I feel so alone. Plz help

[michelle lynn]

I have no idea what to say.
dont change your self, just check yourself and if there's room for improvement.
also, maybe think about changing schools, this may be distracting you and/or making you lose focus.
hope this helped

[Robyn]

m8 no one has friends lol

I think you should try and make more friends that are girls because no offense but it's a bit awkward to best friends with boys , friends but not BEST friends ... Do you get me ?

And there's not really much wrong with snobby people they are just very within themselfs so if you start to be extra friends with someone they might like you ?????

Also band merch t shirts are very bad clothing to wear because it makes it easier for them to judge you by music you listen to really , .... still wear it because u like it but just not with them lol

hope it helped

And just gonna say I don't even get 40 Facebook happy birthdays ahhahahahah!!!!








or you can always yolo it

[Victoria]

I know what you mean I am 14 and in 9th grade and I just kinda realized that all of my so called "friends" aren't really my friends I get along more with older kids and it can be very frustrating. But something my dad always tells me is that when you get older you will meet so many new people. I don't know if you plan on going to college but if you do you will meet friends there too and jobs, as you grow up you gain more friends with the years! I hope this helped! Have a great day!