My boyfriend added a model on facebook and I'm really confused about it?

[kate]

My boyfriend is a model and so am I, we met during a runway show in France last September and we started our long distance relationship in November. We are both really jelous types and its hard to handle the jealousy when we are so far from each other sometimes, but we do trust each other. My boyfriend is a really confined person and doesn't accept or add much people on facebook so I was really shocked the other day when I saw that he added some model. By the looks of it, they've never met each other or worked together so I don't know how they became friends... She seems to look more professional and experienced than me and as much as I trust him my instincts are telling me theres something weird about this. I feel awkward confronting him about it because then he'll know I check his profile sometimes and it'll seem weird, I also don't want to start a fight. Should I confront him about it or not? If so, should I wait to confront him in real life when i see him in 20 days or online now... please help me... I'm so confused

[â™ Merlin â™]

3 days ago you said you were seeing him in 10 days
is this the same guy who isnt responding to you sending nude photographs??

sounds like someone is loosing interest and looking elsewhere
i would be FAR more concerned about what happens to these photographs
if you really are a model it could end your career before its started

[Ok...]

Yes, you need to bring it up now. And dont do it online or in text, do it over the phone.

Some other things you need to know, because you are young and dont have the capacity yet to understand:

LDR's never work. They dont work becuase there is NO intimacy. You can skype all you want, but there is NO WAY you can hold each others hands over skype, ever. Also, if he needs some attention, and you are in a different country, well it is a fact that he is in a city where there are thousands of girls, that are within a mile or two of him that can be there in person for him, to um... meet his "needs". Whether you like it or not. This is why LDR's DONT work.

Last thing, you are not both "jealous" types, your are both "insecure" types. There is a difference. Surprising since you are both models, so idk why either of you would be insecure. Ask yourself why are you insecure with yourself, esp about this other girl. If your bf was into asian girls, I mean, you cannot make yourself be asian... so... then what? See what I mean? You need to work on your insecurities, they are YOURS to take ownership of, not any bf's in your life. Good luck.