breakup after 6 years...really need some help and opinions! :(?

[cutiepie]

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, with the last 7 months of it being long distance because we go to different colleges (but only 1 hr and a half drive apart), well anyway, long story short, I broke up with him two weeks ago because we had a major disagreement on something, he was taking me completely for granted and literally would make NO time for me whatsoever, and also his friendship with this one girl was always really sketchy to me (they attend the same college). Well today I just happened upon this girl "friend" of his twitter, and she was referring to him as her boyfriend, and calling him her "babe" DURING the time that we were still together. Even though we are broken up it literally sickens me to death to think that he was cheating on me in the last few months of our relationship, and also completely confuses me because he REALLY did not want to break up but why would that be the case if he already has this other girl? We have been on no contact since the breakup so it frustrates me so much that I cannot confront him about this because I really don't want to get into it with him. How in the world do I deal with this? I feel like a complete fool, and so betrayed by someone whom I loved so much and was 100% faithful to for 6 years of my life Any advice would be so great thank you in advance !

[bms]

oh Yuck!! that's horrible!! My heart goes out to you! I understand how you feel betrayed and everything you feel is totally natural. But my advice to you is try your best to let it go. As much as you want to light him up, and I know you do...it won't help anything. Try to let it go honey...its really in your best interest. Again so sorry you had to find out like this.

[Boss]

With someone you have known for that long you would think you can trust them. Its best to just confront them about it regardless of consequences. Its not like you are assuming and going based off false info. He really shouldnt be doing that with another girl. Long distance always messes it up but if he really has cheated on you and left you behind like that hes not youre true love and the worst part is that it all amounted to nothing. People seem to forget all the great moments they have with someone when things fall apart. You just have to hold on to that and go your separate ways on a good note. Imagine if we lived forever and never grew old. A 6 year relationship ending wouldnt seem like the end of our life. You still have plenty of time to find a guy who wont betray you like this.

[Samuel]

Idk might be treaky situation that you are having. But you doing the right thing, yea you still luv him but the things that he has done to you, no! You deserve something better. 6 years of faithful love, hurts i feel you, you tough you can do it just ignore. Be patient with yourself, things great will come. No more tears will fall under your Beautiful eyes. Live happy