What to do about my girlfriend? worried?

[Iratethrone420]

been with this girl around a year. could say i trust her. but she went out with her girl mate on the weekend and met some other mates. the other mates were 3 other lads and couple of girls. found out shes been texting one of the lads, who i know, who was seeing one of the girls there but i think they split up that night, for the past few days. Asked her about it and she said shes just friends with him and has met him before because he use to fancy her other mate, which i believe but dont know what he's after. after all he is a lad and i know what most lads are like.

she says i can see the texts and what not but i dont want to look at them tbh and unsure wether she knows id say no and is hiding something.

Just need a bit of advice

[EvilAMMO]

I don't think you have anything to worry about. You have to realise that your girlfriend has her own social life and her own friends and they won't all be girls. This would be like saying you have to have friends who are only guys because she knows what other girls can be like. Yes most guys are scum but not all of us are like that (I've met plenty girls when I have been out and we text, chat on FB etc but if they are with someone then I don't let it go beyond being friends). Until you have real reason to worry (like if she tells you he's been coming onto her or something) then there's nothing to worry about and all you are doing is getting worked up over nothing. The last thing any partner wants is their other half telling them what they can and can't do and who they can and cannot talk to - doing so will only push them away or cause problems unless there is a genuine reason to do so. I can understand you worrying but considering you've been together so long I personally thought you'd have a little more faith in your trust in her.