Did i sound selfish for saying this to him?

[Kristy]

i don't have a problem with my boyfriend not texting me back or taking forever to reply back bc i always assume hes busy with life. but what does kinda tick me is when im waiting for him to reply back i see him post stuff on instagram and liking posts and what not. i cant help but to think that hes just ignoring me on purpose. i would never do that to him. (smh hes always complaining about me taking forever to reply back. he posted a tweet saying "i hate when ppl reply slow. if yo don't reply back within 5 min, my phone is out of my hand and i will reply when im ready". so i try my best to reply back as soon as i could).

but anyway there was a day where i was waiting for him to text me back. then he stopped so i assumed that hes busy with work. hours go by and i got bored and decided to scroll through my instagram. as i was scrolling, i seen him like posts on instagram and posting pics. so i felt some type of way. then i seen him tweet stuff too. i was hurt that he was ignoring me cuz i would always reply to his messages and not ignore him.

so i called him and he didn't pick up. then i sent him this text "I am being calm but it just really hurts when you leave me hanging in the middle of convos/ignore me. If you were just simply busy, sleeping, or something like that then I completely understand. Just don't read on. But if you were ignoring me on purpose then yea it hurts. Im not saying I want your attention 24/7... I just hate being ignored that's all. & im not tryna to sound like a baby, I just want you to know what I'm feeling ...I wanted to let you know yesterday but I kinda chickened out ..but I certainly always appreciate you talking to me all together/hearing from you ..I really do."

then he called me saying that i have problems and that i was being selfish. then he went on how he was busy with school and stuff. in my text i told him that i would understand if he was busy. i don't mind him ignoring me if he was busy. i apologized and told him i wasn't tryna to be selfish. i just wanted him to hear me out. i was trying to be nice about what i texted him. if he didn't wanna talk to me i would of appreciated if just ended our convo saying he gotta go instead of leaving me hangng in the middle of convos all the time. smhh i feel like im asking for too much though. i feell like i am being selfish...i really don't ask much from him though. i always kept things to myself but what i sent him, was i really being selfish?
fyi i wasn't stalking him. i just happen to see his posts n stuff.

[Blundt Cake]

You need a hobby. Monitoring your phone and having nothing better to do than stalk him online is not attractive.
Find something better to do and you won't notice how long it takes him to reply to you.

[mp89x]

NO!! you were not being selfish. I would be annoyed too. He is your boyfriend, the least he could do is text you back! especially if you know he is on his phone using instagram or twitter. And FYI he was acting immature for posting that tweet about not getting replies back within 5 mins. that is babyish to do and also hypocritical since he cant seem to reply to you in a timely fashion, but he expects it from you?

i would see if he continues to do this and if he does try and talk 2 him about it in person and see how he acts when you do. take it from there..

[kokoroth]

well hmm that sucks and hes not busy because hes on instagram just if this continues try to call him out on it again and he seemed like a dick calling you selfish and then if you know where he is test him xD kinda "stalk" him in a way and see if he is busy with school