my husband constantly looks at other woman's FB sexy photos and is look at porn, why?

[995]

The girls on FB he knows or knew. Also in the past I've caught him talking dirty to girls on FB, making coffee dates, sneaking around to see he's ex gf whom for a year I was told was a guy friend named Trevor. We've tried to move forward and just the other day I told him I felt I could trust him again. I caught him hiding some woman on his account n I have a tracker for our kids and I came across him looking at other woman's photos in the middle of the night. Which he has been getting up in the middle of the night saying he can't sleep but begs me to come to bed. As if he is just waiting for me to go to bed. The head games I'm causing myself our destroying my life..advice please?

[Rebecca]

I never see anything wrong in porn mainly because my boyfriend and I enjoy watching porn together. But, sneaking around with people and being flirty/ dirty talking, thats too far and can easily be considered cheating

[WOLOLO Monk]

Go look at yourself in the mirror, you'll realize the obvious answer.
Compare yourself with a hot porn star or a hot facebook women, you'll realize the obvious answer.
Go stand on a weight scale, you'll realize the obvious answer.
Lift your arms and look at the dangling muscles, you'll realize the obvious answer.
Look at your thighs, belly, baby fat, you'll realize the obvious answer.

[Joanne]

Leave the marriage. Your husband is a sleazy, untrustworthy, manipulative d1(k. You know this. And he feels no guilt for the amount of stress he is causing you. He's immature but I didn't want to say that because now you'll think to yourself "it's just immaturity" and it's not. He's an @$$hole and he won't change, at least not in the short run and you don't want to waste the next 60 years of your life do you? You have kids together but they are growing up in a household with a pathological liar and a mother that is being gaslighted and driven crazy. I think the first step is to separate and clear your head. Once you calm down and become financially independent you need to divorce him. You don't need to work on yourself. He has lied to you for over a year about one woman and make a billion other lies about several others. This is ridiculous...

[ericlord]

Tell him you've had enough of this. You married the wrong guy. Start thinking about divorce.