I'm 15 and talking to a 19 year old...?

[Masteraction033]

Okay i already know and understand what my consequences are for something like this, so before ya'll go on talking about how it can be considered rape i need your general advice - disregarding our age difference. So they guy - he started following me on instagram and i thought he was reallly cute, so i searched him on twitter and followed him there. He DM'ed me within 15 seconds of me following him and said that he was just searching for me too. Anyways he gave me his number and we have been texting for a week and he already wants to hang out and has plans for a movie night with cuddling. I think he is super cute im just really nervous about hanging out with him, i dont want him to take advantage of me or try to do stuff with me. He seems to honestly like me though, he calls me boo and babe and cutie all the time, and tells me about how he really just wants something real with someone not all of the bullshit he has been through in his past. I want to hang out with him, but then again i dont, and i also wouldnt want to have to lie to my parents and i think if i told them that i was going to see someone who has already graduated high school they would freak out and not let me. I really hate blowing him off because he really wants to hang out with me and its my birthday this weekend so he wants to do something special, and becuase of how he is sick and tired of people leading him on and i feel like maybe he's feeling like i am when i would really love to have a relationship with him. So i need your guys' help, i dont really have a question, i guess i would just wants the pros and cons and your initial thoughts to help me with my own. Thank you so much!
I know that he lives close by me and i also know someone that knows him

[Jamn]

It's illegal

[purplekitty627]

Con-he can go to college soon and leave you.

[Greg]

He saw you online, thought you were hot, knows you're younger, seems like he wants to take advantage,sorry. He sees you as his girl toy he can "cuddle" with whenever he pleases, and if you're okay with that, then you're fine

[Ben Martin]

Hes a perv Move on, and yeah its Illegal.

[Rachel]

Ok setting aside the age difference, you never know with these people off the Internet. Frankly, he could be some 40 year old guy postin pics of a hot younger dude and pretending to be him. You just can never tell. Just be careful. In the end it's your decision.

[Paul]

if you've never dated a guy before hearing him call you babe and boo feels great, but all guys do that. its just a part of flirting. and of course he wants to spend time with you, he finds you attractive. but whether or not he loves you or feels anything about you, that takes time to know

if he treats you right and doesn't lie, that's good. if he spends time with you and doesn't want anything at the end, that's good. and if he can meet your parents and convince them he cares about you, that's good

you might think the last part can't happen. but if you have a relationship without introducing him then your cutting them out of your life for a guy you barely know

PS all this online flirting is fun, but what he does in person matters a lot more

[Cosi]

hi i know how you feel im 14 and love the older type i think its beacuse there like older brothers but i dont think you should do it maybe you should just keep talking with him for a while online..or you can take the chance by meeting him but bring a pocket knife or pepper spray or just wear metal toe boots haha that what i would do you could also take a martial arts like i do judo but it might be too soon since your birthday is so close and as for your mom tell her your gona go watch a movie with your friends and this wouldnt be lie since you can ask one of your friends to come with you to the movies so your not alone and he will be less likley to pull anything and stay in crowded areas dont ever walk into a quiet place with him or where he could possibly stuff you in a sack and steal you away best of luck