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Ladies, has she warmed up to meeting me? Think she might be interested?
04-28-2014, 10:14 AM
Post: #1
Ladies, has she warmed up to meeting me? Think she might be interested?
I saw this girl on FB who is a mutual friend. I decided to friend her and say hello. I told her I was interested in getting to know her. She responded and said sure and asked the usual questions about what I studied and where I went to school. I sent her a reply but never heard back. This was about a month ago. I noticed she is heavily involved with a volunteer organization and thought maybe she just got busy or wasn't interested in meeting anyone.

Fast forward a month and I decided to give it another shot. I sent her a message asking her how she was doing. She replied and I asked her about the organization she volunteered for and that I was interested in donating some time. She seemed excited and gave me her number and told me to text her my contact info and she could get me started. I did and didn't hear from her for a bit. I asked her for coffee and she said she would love to and that she was trying to get "everyone" together for a meeting. She got back to me the following Monday and told me she was sorry it didn't work out but that she would keep me posted.

The fact she jumped from us having coffee to the entire group meeting I figured she wasn't interested in anything more than maybe making a friend. I left it alone about another week after thanking her for her time and asking her to keep me posted.

Last week I decided to try one final time. I told her there was a cultural festival downtown in our city and just asked her if she had heard about it. She said it looked interesting and then I was surprised she started asking me questions. She asked me if I had been to one before and asked me more about my interest in film. I replied and answered her questions and told her I just wanted to let her know about the festival because it seemed up her alley and that I was always into learning about new cultures. Something I knew she was also into. After that she said I was "right on point with that!" and that she might be busy that day but if we could maybe meet up for a bit because she wanted to tell me about a film festival that her organization puts on. I told her sure and she said she was "glad to meet up! Smile"

Today she texted me and asked me about tomorrow. I told her the time I was going and she said she wasn't able to make it but if I was free in the afternoon we could meet for a bit. I told her sure and I am waiting for a reply. But my question is how she I interpret this. Is she maybe interested in discovering more about me since I established some common interests. I don't really use facebook and don't have many pics. Or is it that she is just being friendly? What should my expectations be ladies. If you responded to a guy like this what would your expectations be ladies?

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04-28-2014, 10:17 AM
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She definitely isnt into you. She just got excited because shes passionate about her volunteering and wanted to recruit someone else. If she liked you then she wouldve accepted your advances and wouldnt have mentioned anything about some group coming along! Dont waste your time with someone who clearly isnt interested in being in a relationship.. Unless you are fine with just being friends - Then continue talking to her all you want!

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