I really like this girl, but she tells me she started "seeing someone" , is that "someone" me? Also we are friends, not

[wittyrock288]

Ok so here is a long but little story that i hope i can get opinions so i can make a move soon, or if someone is on the same boat. Anyways so i started talking to her on facebook almost 2 months ago, i met her once at the mall and we talked for about 5-6 hours on like everything and literally any kind of subject, we seemed to really "hit it off" the ice. But the thing is she lives out of town at the moment and back then when i met her at the mall about 2 weeks after we started talking since then she has been busy looking for a place to move into the city and finding a new job. Lately she is busy with deciding between 2 jobs and she is very busy and has almost no time to see me or even her friends at the moment. When she talks to me she can say things she would probably never tell anyone else (trying to make me feel special from what i see) and also her mundane reality things like jobs, life, her feelings, etc...And also when we talk sometimes i try to tell her we should hangout (but i try not to ask her constantly to look weird or shady) which i even told here that at somepoint and she told me to not feel guilty or weird about asking her to hangout and such. Also on top of that i was talking to her recently and she told me she started "seeing someone", and the reason i have suspicious beliefs that she is seeing someone else is because she is busy most of the time, yet she seems to still have interest in me. Do you think this is some form of game or hint for me to make a move?

[Charles]

She said she was seeing somebody so you would stop asking to see her in person

She isn't attracted to you anymore bcuz you act beta male. (For example you are so insecure you think it's "weird" if you ask a girl to hang out. Right now I have a girl texting me wanting to suck my c*ck. Trust me it's only weird bcuz you lack self esteem and think you're unworthy: if you felt you were a sexy stud of a man you would know women want you and that confidence makes you ballsy.)

She also may have only seen you as a friend from the first moment- maybe you were too short or unattractive physically somehow compared to her

And why does she still talk to you then, you ask? Bcuz girls enjoy attention and compliments. Period.

How to know if a girl respects you and finds you attractive? Act like a bad boy. Stop giving her any sort of validation or compliments. Tease her. Challenge her. IF she responds to that by chasing you and acting more into you? Then you know she finds you desirable.