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Coworker and husband?
04-28-2014, 11:01 AM
Post: #1
Coworker and husband?
My husband befriended this co worker from work. They used to chat excessively (literally 8am till after midnight daily). I noticed this girl was becoming clingy because she would tell my husband how she hates not talking to him or telling him that she can't sleep at 4am. I asked him to end the friendship because I felt it was a disaster waiting to happen. Of course he called me controlling and jealous. A few weeks into their friendship, this girl texted him at midnight and begged my husband to visit. When he asked why, she stated that she wanted to have sex with, talk and cuddle. He has never gone out with her because we have the same car and same work time-table. He literally toppled her off. He asked her to stop talking to him immediately. He also told her that he was only looking for a platonic friendship not a sexual one. He then blocked her contact and deleted her from Facebook. She created a different fb account and tried to add him but he refused. Now she knows he blocked him, she is still trying to get Intouch with him. They work together but he states she hasn't been to work since the day they fought. I think it's been 3 weeks. My question is, is this co worker ever going to back off? Also was I being controlling when I asked hubby to stop talking to that co-worker? I can't help it wonder?

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04-28-2014, 11:09 AM
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Your husband was chatting with a girl from "8am till after midnight daily"? No, you were not in the wrong to tell him he should not be talking to her! A married man should not be chatting , talking on the phone or texting another women for any reason!

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04-28-2014, 11:14 AM
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No it's not controlling. It is normal for a person to be jelous of that kind of relationship. Also, There will come a time that the girl will move on specially your husband is the one who brushes her off.

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04-28-2014, 11:23 AM
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Well i think you should keep and eye on that since guys are experts in laying!! And pretending.
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