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Does he like me? What is happening?
04-28-2014, 11:04 AM
Post: #1
Does he like me? What is happening?
So 2 weeks ago I arrived in Ireland as an international student. From the first day I really like a guy I met but we didn't see each other for several days. On last Wednesday I had arranged with some friends to go for a coffee and they invited him. We spoke all together and it was really fun. With that guy we hear the same music so we discused a little about that and we said maybe we could go all together again to a party the next day. When I returned home he sent me some songs on facebook and we talked. The next day was the party and we run into each other again, we danced alot and then at some point he asked me if he could kiss me, I said yes so we kissed. We returned home together and again he sent me some other songs on facebook and we talked again.
After that we didnt spoke very much, and when we went to the same pub by accident he seemed to avoid me.. At first I didnt do anything, I thought that maybe he didnt want something more(which is ok with me) but at some point because he was really avoiding me I asked him if everything is ok between us. And then he started to talk to me, we really discussed a lot of things and when we returned at home(again the 2 of us) we sent some songs we like and we spoke for 2 hours. And after that he just kept avoiding me once again.
Now I'm really confussed, at first I thought maybe he is just shy(it looks like he's extremely shy and a little inexperienced) but every time I have to talk first...and he keeps avoiding me. He sent me some random messages on fb after some days we hadnt talk at all and at some point he sent a group message to arrange something with me and our friends, but he didnt show up. And the next day he didnt come to a party I think because of me. Today though I was suppose to cook for some friends and he showed up even though I didnt invite him... What is happening? i really dont understand... I think I like him a lot, even if I dont really want to..

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04-28-2014, 11:10 AM
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I can't read all that...I still don't know why you guys don't use paragraphs.
Just don't be this girl...

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04-28-2014, 11:11 AM
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Hmmm...You're in a really sticky situation. I really don't know the answer to this problem. What I'm guessing is that he's either pretty shy (just like what you said), or he's not comfortable with dating you. This is my guessing and I might be wrong. The best way to see what's wrong is to have a one-on-one discussion with him. Good Luck!
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04-28-2014, 11:19 AM
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I think that this guy is confused. He seems to really want to be friends with you, that&#x27;s for sure, but he&#x27;s not really sure if he wants to be more than friends, so he&#x27;s trying not too be too friendly with you, because his friends might tease him, or something like that. Just keep on trying, and he&#x27;ll eventually realize that your friendship doesn&#x27;t have to be too awkward. You can push him a bit, but don&#x27;t push him too hard, or else he&#x27;ll close up. Keep talking to him, cheating on Facebook, and see how he reacts. He might be closed up for a whole, but he&#x27;ll slowly start opening up. Someday he might realize that he actually likes you more than a friend, and there you go! Whala. A romance. Usually romances start out as friendships, remember! Don&#x27;t lose hope!
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