How to get my crush to love me back?

[Pink Glasses]

Hey guys so I've had a crush for the past 2 years and he doesn't like me back. I think about him all the time and how perfect we would be together. Many of my friends say that we would. He showed interest in my at the beginning of freshman year but then stopped talking to me because I sat next to my friend during class and we were really loud and always laughing. I guess that really annoyed him because he stopped talking to me. Anyways, how do I get him to feel differently about me again? I don't have any classes with him this year so theres no way I can talk to him and ask about homework or anything. He unfollowed me on twitter so I unfollowed back. What can I do?

[the oracle]

Hi there,

It doesn't really sound like he's very interested in you at the moment. Maybe it's because of how he's seen you behave, but if he's stopped talking to you and unfollowed you on Twitter, it doesn't sound like he's interested at all.

I was going to suggest that you could change your behaviour and how you're acting online, but to be honest, that wouldn't be good advice. Nobody should change themselves to try to attract someone. Even if it worked, you'd have to keep up the act, instead of being yourself, and if you're pretending to be something you're not, that wouldn't be an honest way to start a relationship.

If you're okay being true to yourself, though, you could wait until an opportunity comes up and then start a conversation. I don't know how friendly you were when you were on talking terms, but if you were pretty friendly before, it's always okay to just go over and say hi. Don't do it with any expectation that he'll fall in love with you, just start with getting some communications going, and see where it goes from there.

Good luck.