Keep seeing around someone you had one night stand with, but they don't seem to want to talk?

[trap]

Hi,

I like the privacy of this site, and often get opinions. Appreciate any comments.

Basically I had a one night stand with a girl who goes to the same university as me. We meet in a club, talked and went back to hers. She gave me her number in the club, and I tried to ring it three/four days later, and added her on Facebook, yet she hasn't accepted it (like a month later)

This is all fine, I'm not a clingy or pushy person. If she didn't want to talk for some reason thats okay. My issue is she lives 2 minutes away from my friend at uni. So every time I stay at his, I often see her(even if she doesn't see me).

Last time I saw her was on Wednesday in the study room at uni. My friends kept on going "Shes so hot , you did well, go talk to her and blah blah". Since I get the feeling she doesn't want to talk(and she was busy doing work) I didn't say anything and she didn't see me( I don't think)

My question is what would you do in my situation? If people(5/6 people) kept on going on about someone you had a one night stand with, and how good looking they are and you bumped into them what would you say? Why would they not accept your facebook add?

I don't mind forgetting her, but when people keep talking about her it makes me feel bad about myself.

[Ej Schoonover]

its called a one night stand for a reason, you fuck and go. i mean, she probably wouldve talked to you earlier if she still wanted to talk to you. Im not trying to put you down or anything, but i dont think she's really interested. yeah you can try and see whats up; so you never know what will happen until you try!

[Kelly louise]

I agree with EJ because that's what a one night stand is, she obviously didn't want a friendship or a relationship with you as she would off talked to you and accept your friend request on Facebook.

Just try not to be pushy and just leave her to talk to you of she doesn't then she only wanted you for fuck basically.