My fake FB account made me find out that my boyfriend is cheating on me...how should i tell him that I know?

[kindkite358]

Hey people, I did a very bad thing,my boyfriend and i are in long distance and i have been having this gut feeling for a loong time that he was flirting with people on fb and ... I made a fake fb account and put up a fake picture and added a few friends so it wouldnt look wiered and when we were chatting today ..using the fake account, well i wanted to know if he really was proud to have me as a gf...he told this fake person that he would love to meet her that he has no gf,that they broke up 3 yrs ago and he has been single cz of travelling...i went ahead to ask him if he had a girl he was interested in,he said noo and he even asked for the fake girls number and said he could meet with her when he comes back..... so he doesnt love me and he is just pretending,....i duno why...i am going to talk to him tonight and i duno what to say to him...how can i tell him i know?? because he will ask how and should i tell him i faked an account??

[Gayatri]

just tell him

[Katy]

I suggest breaking up with him. He is obviously not worth it and you deserve better than that. Just tell him you heard about it through facebook. If he asks more questions, just say that everyone was talking about it on fb.....

[â™ Merlin â™]

why do you feel the need to say anything or justify yourself
you did this to find out, you found out
what more is there to say?

if you really feel the need to say anything, and i assume you are dumping here
send him a message
just the (fake) girls name
nothing else

he will know the games over
you already do

[Opsiee Daisy]

Tell him. I had a similar issue, and I saved the conversation, through yahoo messenger though. Just say I need to talk to you about something, and if he says what. Copy and paste the convo, or try and remember it. It doesn't matter if you faked an account, certainly there was a reason to check up on him, and that's all you have to tell him. Something like, I felt you were being dishonest with me, and I wanted to prove my intuition wrong by testing your commitment.

Let him go. If you find one spec of dishonestly in a long term relationship, it is likely he is lying about more. The guy who did this to me was married, and told me his wife died! I chatted everyday, and met up with him a couple of times in the period of 2 years, they can lie better than they can breathe, so guard your heart.