Is the dumped ex-mistress who had his baby keeping her Fb open to the public for me to see her life?

[cooingyard157]

My husband had an affair & the the woman ended up pregnant (I believe purposely) thinking he would leave me & stay with her. He left her as soon as he found out. I didnt find out until a year after the affair was over. I tracked her down & found her on Fb. When I confronted her it started out ok then after a few more Fb conversations it ended up ugly. She bad mouthed my husband & told me off. She started posting the gym where she works out at. I showed up & she tried to fight me. I finally left it alone & worked on myself & marriage. Her Fb is still open to the public to show her posts about how much fun she's having, how she's getting drunk & partying & posting every time she's at the gym. If I stalked her through her open page why won't she close it? Is she doing it on purpose? Is she hoping my husband will show up & try to be in her babies life? I don't want to look but its hard not to. Is she realy over him & happy & not leaving it open to the public on purpose hoping that I will stalk again so she can report me or hoping he'll show up to ask for his baby he has no interest in?

[Margot]

You need to see a psychologist. Seriously.

But since it is so difficult for you to stop stalking her FB page, I suggest you block her. That way when you look for her page, you will not be able to see it. And then make a "rule" for yourself that you aren't allowed to unblock her.

[Lovely]

Darling, you are torturing yourself and the wrong person. Granted, she's the mistress, but why in the hell are you just mad at her?

You need to quit looking at her Facebook. As for you, you do need some help. And you need to quit stalking the girl. Don't show up where she works out! Don't you realize you make this worse on YOU?

And why are just blaming her? Your husband had a hand in getting this gal pregnant.

Leave her alone and work on your marriage. You're only going to look like a crazy person going the route you're taking.

[ANGELA s]

Why are you still with the Dbag. It's bad enough that he cheated but now he has a baby and he can't even be a father to it. That is sad. You married a little boy not a man. You deserve better and so does the other chick. I hope that she is getting child support at least.

[priv828]

you ned to get the f*ck off facebook. even if that means closing your account. ..and gets some professional help.

You are so messed up I don't even know where to begin.

she is leaving you and your husband alone. you would be wise to do the same. if you can't drop it...then you shouldn't be married still.

why? because you are unable to move forward and are misdirecting that focus in a rather unhealthy and irrational way. and to the wrong person. you stay with the man that actually betrayed you yet hate and stalk and wont move on from the woman who had no commitment to you and is now out of life and no longer seeing your husband,

it may be understandable why you are behaving like a head case. but it is not healthy nor excusable so if you can't move past this in a healthy way...seek help or get a divorce.

** just for the record. it is p*ssweak that he doesn't bother to support the life he made, and it is p*ssweak that you would be ok with him doing it.

that kid is here he needs to be a father and if you are not willing to accept that(which you shouldn't have to)you leave you husband.

but why should an innocent child have no father in its life because you are too spinelss to leave your cheating husband?

if you stay with your husband you should actually tell him to man up. encourage him to at least get to know the kid...and if you can't bare to see him with the kid...you go!

[eagledreams]

Your husband had an affair and the mistress had a child.........then he left her and the child.

AND do you really think you are the winner to have such a 'man' in your life?

He is the one playing the games here.....she can leave her facebook account open all she likes and say what she likes. The child has a father whether the father has any interest in the poor mite or not.

Get real here and ask why is this man being allowed to do as he pleases and no one calls him on it. What about the financial support for the child?