How to deal with my man's female friend who still likes him?

[M]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months, and we get along very well. We are both 23 years old, and serious about our relationship. We're also mature enough to accept and understand our friendships with former love interests as long as we aren't flirtatious with them, and they're aware that we're committed to one another. About 2 months ago, he told me about one of his female friends, and how they used to like one another - and how she recently found out about him dating me. He said, she's been acting a little weird around him since then, but he doesn't care, and she needs get over it.

Nonetheless, ever since she found out about us - she's been all over his facebook/instagram. She'll be the first one to comment on every post, and picture. If he posts a picture of himself with his male friends, she'll be like "can I join you guys?" etc etc. My boyfriend responds to her with very dry answers; however, that doesn't stop her from continuously bombarding his profile. I know I shouldn't let petty stuff like this on Facebook and such get to me; but I think it's pretty clear that she still into my boyfriend. Whenever I read her wall posts, I end up getting frustrated with my boyfriend. How do I deal with this?

[Troy]

Ahh I see well here's the thing you shoulden't be upset or angery at your boyfriend. It's not his fault she is the one who's being immature. He has no interest in her it's obvious it's best to just let her tire herself out. she'll get the hint. don't let her know it's getting to you! or she'll never stop! or worse! use it aginst you to make you and your boyfriend fight.

[teresathegreat]

This is his problem, not yours. He needs to deal with her and tell her to chill.
Just be honest with him: tell him that her stalking behavior makes you upset and uncomfortable, and you'd be happier if he took a more direct and active approach in discouraging her.

But really, pity her. You've got the great guy - she's lost the great guy and can't get him back. You've got the happy ending - pity her that she doesn't.