Should I confess to my estranged husband?

[Fearlessthrill329]

He left me 3 mths ago, moved 6 hrs away two states between us, with his brother. He wouldn't work and all he would do is play video games and I got tired of it. So I started fussing at him, now to hear him tell it, I abused him for our 2 1/2 yr marriage.

I did wrong....I called his brothers gf this week to ask her if my husband has been seeing anyone while she was around. Then one word led to another. She told me she wished she knew how her bf felt about her, I said he is using you for a piece. He is 43, she is 60. I asked her to hold this conversation in confidence. I had mentioned his exwife who also they are living in different states. She said her bf lied to her, that he had told her he had never been married.
My husband called me at midnight last night and asked me if I called her, then he asked me how I got her number. I denied calling her. He unfriended me on fb, blocked me from fb, wont answer any of my calls, text me "I'm finished". This morning, I text him and told him I need to talk to him asap. He called, told me I betrayed him by repeating what he had told me about his brother using her for a piece. He then said and you are calling this woman asking her if I am dating someone else. (He has a history of cheating, emotional affair with his ex last year.) He then proceeded to ask me "just how did you get her number? and if you don't tell me, then I am hanging up". So I wouldn't tell him. He hung up and yet to answer my call since. I ask him if he will sign div papers, get no reply.
Should I confess to him everything, how I got her number, what I said, and etc.? Or should I just leave him alone?
I had been hoping for reconciliation-as stupid as it may seem.

[Y]

You should tell him what you said so they can deal better with the fallout your pettiness has caused. After that, just stop, stop all this childish nonsense and move on.

[she]

Too much he say, she say, I would not chase him, let him chase you,... He is the one who cheated right?

[Dee]

just leave it alone! your divorcing him for a reason and he's not worth the explination Good Luck =)

[Another Crone]

You still want to engage So Badly! Well, I'd been taking you seriously up until now. You're on your own, kiddo.

[Charlie]

great job, you made his life miserable during the marriage and after!
what guy wouldnt wanna reconcile with a woman who continues to ruin his life??

[pumpitup]

Leave him alone now.. dont call dont answer his calls. Block him back on fb...
Men when ignored they start thinking of chasing you. And that s what women want.

Btw, I am as curious as ur husband ii how did you get her number? ..

[edie]

you called to find out one thing and not to tell secrets. yes, you were wrong to do that. to tell something that was told to you in confidence from your husband whether you were or are mad at him. this part that you told was not what you called to talk about. if you were calling to get a divorce then that should have been what you ask about and nothing else. now in all honesty do you think your husband should talk to you, or even consider coming back to you? because the harm is done for his sister and brother relationship because you got steered into another type of conversation.