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What should I do?
04-28-2014, 05:46 PM
Post: #1
What should I do?
Well, I recently broke up with my ex of 7 months because he was very controlling and thought he could speak to me any kind of way. The main reason is because me,my friends,& him were going to the movies so I told him to meet us at this store since it's close by to my friends home. He was alright with it so he said ok. I told him to give us 10 minutes because we were getting ready and It only takes about 4 minutes to get to the store. So he kept constantly calling inbetween those 10 minutes saying "where are you at" "can you hurry up" and making dumb arguments with me. He then says "Fu'c'k you, B!!tch" and hangs up. That should never slip out of a mans mouth.

Now we're broken up. Im not in love with him. I blocked him from everything. His phone number, facebook, instagram. All of that. But now ... I got a incoming call that had a familiar phone number (his house phone) and then the second call it switched to "No caller Id". He called me at least 20 times in a row. He's a little psychotic... and didnt take the break up easily. I mean it's been about 2 weeks hes stalking me and I just want to live my life. Should I just ignore it... or put a stop to this ? Im kinda scared because he threatens a lot "Im going to kill you" stuff like that.. do you think hes serious? I remember he said "sometimes I just wanna climb through your window and slit your throat" and then he said that was a joke....
We've talked & talked & talked. Theres not many ways to explain why I broke up with him and why I dont love him.He knows why thats why he keeps calling trying to say sorry its been over 2 weeks.

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04-28-2014, 05:55 PM
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Do not talk with this luzer.. he hasn't changed.... ignore his efforts and move on... Pass-a-dena

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04-28-2014, 05:57 PM
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You call your local police immediately tell them what he is doing and file a restraining order a judge will sign it within 24 hours do not let him get away with this this is happened to me before and I was hurt severely 👮👮👮👮👮👮👮👮👮👮
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04-28-2014, 06:06 PM
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He has some serious issues and I think you should seek out some help from professionals. This could be going to the police. Until he actually does something they can't act but they can advise you in what things to do or not to do. Same is true for seeing a therapist or counsellor. Also they could advise you about what you can do or what is better not to do.

Although it's not for certain he will actually do something to hurt you it's best not to take any chances with this. So cover you basis and seek some advice as well as take some precautions like having emergency numbers on speed-dial etc. Better safe than sorry.

Hope this helps.
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04-28-2014, 06:11 PM
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Don't B afraid, as U said you should ignore him & don't pay attention to his threats.find a new guy & live Ur life.
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04-28-2014, 06:20 PM
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Wow... Well he&#x27;s not taking it so well... So you don&#x27;t love him anymore, and tbh that&#x27;s his own fault, you&#x27;ve done the right thing. But he&#x27;s probably thinking to himself it&#x27;s all his fault and he would change to be with you (at first he would but then just go back to his usual self) he must really want to be with you and he needs to know why you dont want to be with him, coz if he things it&#x27;s just what he says to you, he&#x27;ll think he can watch his tongue if you decide to give it another go. But you need to tell him if he really wants you to be happy he&#x27;ll leave you alone and you&#x27;ll both find someone else to be happy with. Oh and don&#x27;t ignore him you need to tell him why, just so you won&#x27;t be worried he&#x27;ll do something to harm you, also that stuff he says he&#x27;s probably not being serious, I&#x27;m a girl and tbh I say stuff like that as a joke and so many people dont find it funny. Just coz I watch too many movies with violence in them, I hope he won&#x27;t do anything stupid and I hope I helped
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