Is my wife proud of me?

[Chuck]

My wife of almost 20 years (two children together) posts a lot on fb. (I am mentioned a married to her)
1. She literally has a few hundred friends (many men I know she actively found and freinded), mainly from her home country (we live in US). Of course she claims only friends.
2. She rarely ever mentions me on her wall. Ex: In Nov, '13 was the last time, and I was in small pic in a collage (and at the bottom). This was a vacation we had together, where she also had many bikini shots of herself.(getting comments and many likes from men unknown to me).
3. She posts pictures of her friends when they go out to night clubs (which is her favorite thing to do, staying out till usually 4-5 am), or whenever she goes out with anyone, but me. I even had to ask she stop putting pictures of her hugging other guys on her wall.
4. Even when we go out together (vacation, hiking...), she will only post herself with a tag of "Great day for a hike", but I never get mentioned or seen. This happens several times.

She will be going back to her country to visit her family,I told I wanted to be on her wall so her "friends" know we are a couple and do things together. I said this bothered me not being there. She blew up and threatened divorce (not 1st time)

I work everyday and am not a deadbeat. I provide for family and take care of kids.

I do love her, but I feel I am putting up with too much. We will talk tomorrow and I am thinking to call it quits.

[LEYKIS 101]

how is she suppose to get some new d!!ck if she post pictures of you and her?? Your a nice guy and women love to treat nice guys like crap while some Facebook loser get all her attention!!

[???]

You know you can post on FB and tag her in a photo right? So start talking to your lovely wife online, and the next time she blows up and threatens to divorce you, say, "OKAY. It's obvious you aren't into this marriage anymore. I'll give you what you want." She'll backpeddle so fast she'll burn the carpet. lol (Or, she won't and you'll see this has been a long time coming.)

[santobugito]

The blowing up when you brought a concern to her was not okay and shows to me that she's hiding something. Otherwise, some people like to keep their relationship private. I don't tag my husband in a lot of things, or post many pics of him either. Same with my sister, but it doesn't mean we don't love our men.
If facebook is causing that kind of problems for you guys then maybe facebook needs to go.

[Bradley]

Ah the joys of Facebook. Many people like her use it to boost their ego. Why does she not include you? Simple because she wants the attention focused on her not you. Like a fantasy world she can communicate with family, chat with her friends, or even get other men to drool over and flirt with her. If your included then in her mind you are infringing in her fantasy world. She likes the attention she gets and wants to keep her life from you seperate from this virtual world she created. What's very concerning is her threatening divorce. She is either addicted to this life on Facebook or she is hiding something on there from you. (side note what married mother of two goes clubbing till 4 in the morning and posts pictures of herself hanging onto other men?) I know you love her but she really needs to grow up and you need to stand up to her because she has very little respect for you by the way she acts.