How do I be friends with my ex-friend again and what should I say to her?

[happytub334]

Because I was an introvert...(ok I'm not sure if I am an extrovert) I was attached to this friend in second grade. She was great back then. I felt good when I was with her. I feel like I need her and she brings light to my life. The bad news was that she was a heartless person who never cared about me. She treated me in a cruel way. So I argued with her. I was away from her 2 years. She poked me on fb.
so I chatted with her and she didn't care to chat or say sorry to me. So I made fun of her. I trolled her so hard she got mad and she said she never wants to see me again and wants to rip my head off. She blocked me. and 1 year passed. We see each other but she ignores me. Before I leave to america I want to make peace with her and be her friend again. She can be my future friend.

Another female friend of mine said I can send her a message on fb. But I wonder what should I say to her? I don't want enemies in life. That's unhealthy if you ask me. Dear people on YA give a suitable message for me to send her. Something that is friendly and can convince her it's good to be friends again.

[Helen]

Why would you want to be friends with a "heartless person" who "never cared about you" and "treated you in a cruel way"?
It doesn't sound like the friendship was very mutual, and you brought out the worst in each other.
There's a difference between making peace and being friends again. It will be good to make peace, but it doesn't sound as though you should ever be friends. When someone is bad for you and doesn't deserve you, it's senseless to let them back into your life. By all means, message her to say goodbye. Let her know you are sorry for your part in everything that happened, that you are going away and you wish her all the best. Then move on to a new life in America.

[Loto]

Hi
Hey
I wanted to tell you I'm truly sorry about the past and I don't like having enimies in real life. I want our relationship back to normal and lets be happy and have fun again. I miss you

[Nurul]

I used to like that too.. I know exactly the feeling is.. It hurt a lot.. I dont feel at ease.. I fight with my bestfriend and we didnt speak for bout a year. But it just change i told her that i was really sorry and we ok now. We are bestfriend again now.. Maybe you should make the first move and try to say sorry.. I think she'll say that she's sorry too.. (if she is human)..

[Intellectualterritory764]

You both were clearly not meant to be friends at all and you both have a hand in ruining that. Like someone else said, why would you ever settle for a person that can't really treat you like a decent human being? Do you not have any self-respect for yourself at all? Do you not believe you don't deserve better? Out of all the kinds of people on this planet, you want a person like THAT as your friend?

Also, you said you believe you're an introvert, but you seemed to have been extrovert enough to troll her, which in my opinion was very immature of you to do. Not only that, but it makes you look like you're easily offended, easily hold on to a grudge, and overly sensitive. You don't know how childish that was. So, any chance you may have had to being her friend, YOU ruined that. I would not want to be your friend either.

Leave the past alone, learn from your experiences and your mistakes and move on.