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I am going crazy ,he wont respond to me?
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I am going crazy ,he wont respond to me?
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04-28-2014, 06:36 PM
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I am going crazy ,he wont respond to me?
we have known each other for few years and we have seen each other on and during that time.However we recently got back in touch a month ago and he was planning to come to visit me then I noticed that he became distant and was barely responding to my fb messages.I asked him if he met someone else and he dinied it and said he still wants to see me.
He decactivated his face book account for some reason so I have been texting him instead but he is not responding to me.i even begged him to respond to my texts and asking why he is not responding and if he is okay and I got nothing.Its been more than a week since we spoke and he never responded to my texts.He deactivated his fb so texting is the only way I can get hold of him.I don't have his home phone number.I used to have it but I lost it when I switched phones and I didn't get around to ask him and his cell phone doesn't take calls.its only for texts messaging and voice mail. I was thinking to message his brother on face book and ask him about it but I am not sure.what should I do? I am really hurt that he is ignoring me cold turkey but at the same time I want to find out if he is okay through his brother Ads |
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04-28-2014, 06:37 PM
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Have no idea who "he" is.... but. This sounds like someone avoiding a person who is contacting them WAY too much.
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04-28-2014, 06:42 PM
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It's OVER and he is too much of a coward to tell you. Accept it move on and stop being so desperate and needy.
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04-28-2014, 06:49 PM
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No. Don't contact his brother or anyone else. He's not responding because he doesn't want to. Don't chase him, don't beg, and don't humiliate yourself. When or if he wants to, he will contact you. Throwing yourself at him won't make that happen.
Find your dignity, hold up your head and soldier on. He has to seek you out or you will always wonder if he really cares. If he does, you will know. You will know because he shows you every day and in every way he knows. Anything else is not worth your time. |
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04-28-2014, 06:55 PM
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He's sending you a message loud and clear - "Back Off".
If he wants to talk, he'll contact you. You are being way too pushy. Leave him alone. He is not required or obligated to tell you anything or to give you an explanation. The fact that you've spent WEEKS here asking this question over and over several times a day, in multiple categories is pure proof of your inability to recognize and respect boundaries. You're also desperately needy and pushy. No wonder this guy wants to get away from you. |
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04-28-2014, 07:01 PM
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Have you asked this before here?
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04-28-2014, 07:03 PM
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He either died, is in the hospital or too sick.
Yes ask his brother if he is okay, if he says yes then its over and stop obsessing. Many guys online will do this, they will delete their email, now Facebook, and they never say goodbye they find it too painful and just try to forget. Now its time for you to do the same. |
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