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Boyfriend of 6 years two-timed me?:(?
04-28-2014, 06:53 PM
Post: #1
Boyfriend of 6 years two-timed me?:(?
My bf and I have been together for 6 years, with the last seven months of it being long distance because we go to different colleges (only 1 hour and a half apart). Anyway, two weeks ago I broke up with him because he was taking me for granted and would never make time for me and I could not handle being sad, lonely, and disappointed anymore. It was honestly the hardest thing to do because it has been 6 years and of course I love him. Long story short, we have been on no contact since the breakup, and I just came upon this girls twitter whom he goes to the same school with, who I always thought was just his "friend" referring to him as her boyfriend and "babe" in many of her tweets DURING the time we were still together. I cannot even believe this and I feel so betrayed, and worst of all is I cannot confront him about this because I REALLY do not want to break the no contact we have had and I know it will be pointless. How can I not feel so incredibly hurt...I was 100% faithful for 6 years of my life to him and I cannot believe he could not only cheat on me during the last few months of our relationship, but two time meSad and why was he SOOOO upset when I broke up with him two weeks ago if he already has another girl?? Any advice would be greatSad

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04-28-2014, 07:03 PM
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Why didn't you have a talk with him about what he's doing instead of immediately pulling the break-up card? Stupid bitch...

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04-28-2014, 07:03 PM
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I would personally just forget about him i know it will be hard but i think that will be the best thing to do for yourself ... Before doing so i would ask to meet up with him when you are both free and confront him about it just ask him straight out so you can have peace of mind to what actually happened. Hope i help x
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04-28-2014, 07:08 PM
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He was upset because you were his constant. His rock. He had a girl on the side for convenience. Don&#x27;t be sad doll, be happy that you no longer have someone so unworthy in your life. I know it&#x27;s hard to not have that connection anymore trust me. But it will get better. He&#x27;s going to realize what he&#x27;s done, and he&#x27;s going to regret it very much. You will be a subject of his future relationships. He&#x27;s probably going to harbor feelings for you until they eat him alive. You can&#x27;t be in a relationship for 6 years and just wake up one day and not have it mean anything. But everyday, you can wake up and let go of him pieces at a time until you&#x27;re ok with who you are. You gave him your best. You tried it&#x27;s not your fault he messed up. And hopefully you&#x27;ll be living your life, stronger, happier and without him.
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