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Did this woman set up a blind date for my husband?
04-28-2014, 07:20 PM
Post: #1
Did this woman set up a blind date for my husband?
My husband and I have been married 10 yrs and we don't get along but we are still in marriage.

When we had arguments I know that he occasionally called his friend "A" in his hometown and
talked bad about me.

My husband visited his hometown by himself the other day, I came to know that he met his
friend "A" and his wife "B" there.
I have never seen any of them in person, I have only spoke to "A" on the phone a little bit
many years ago.

I saw my husband's facebook and found that "B" was uploading some pictures of the night
they got togehter, my husband said that it was a drinking place with a little dancing area.

It was a group of 6 members that night as follows;

A
B
A's cousin "C"
"C"s wife "D"
B's friend "E" ( single mom)
My husband

It looks very strange to me that my husband was drinking with 2 couples and a woman.
I asked my husband if he danced with "E".
He said no.

Do you think A & B set up a blind date for "E" and my husband?
Thank you all for all replies so far, I would like to add that I trust my husband and
I don't think he expected the situation.

I just want to know if his friend A or B had intention to have 3 couples in a bar.

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04-28-2014, 07:29 PM
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Its not what she did but rather the husbands follow through.

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04-28-2014, 07:35 PM
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No. I think you're fckuing paranoid and looking for a reason to create an issue that doesn't exist.
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04-28-2014, 07:43 PM
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Does it really matter?? You know he is hooking up with someone because he does not like you!!!
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04-28-2014, 07:47 PM
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It is about trusting your husband..only you know if you do or not..
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04-28-2014, 07:51 PM
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If you still care for him and don't like him talking bad about you, or visiting his friends and going out with them, where there are single women involved, then I would suggest that you two go to marriage counseling and try to save your marriage, if you don't care, then I would get a divorce asap. and move on with my life.
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04-28-2014, 07:59 PM
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It's hard to say without knowing the people involved. As sad as it is, I do know people who would do that sort of thing. You know them ... what do you really think? My guess is you're paranoid about it but don't really think they would or you wouldn't be asking, you'd be complaining. Wink Sounds like it just wound up stacked that way.

I think I would tell your husband it's time to figure out what he wants from this marriage. If he wants to be married, start going on regular dates. Do new things together. Focus on the positives. If not, file. Good luck.
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04-28-2014, 08:05 PM
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You just said you dont get along and have arguments. Well why wont he go see someone else. And if other people know what his life is like. They tell him he should have someone better and he should be happy. If you love your husband, Not because your married, but love him. work on what the problem is? only you two no that. Im in that boat. im on my way to a new life with another woman.
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04-28-2014, 08:12 PM
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Are you going to church with your husband? He is missing morals if he is doing this and should be speaking to your Pastor about being a better husband than all this.
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