I don't know what to do help?!?!?

[Joshua]

I constantly get told by other no one likes your or that's why you have no freinds but I am unsure if they are serious or not. With the group I hang out with I am an easy target and often have people take the piss out of me. I have tried standing up for myself a few times but it has not worked. I am failing at school and when I go home I am isolated from the outside world I often find myself screaming at my Xbox and getting upset. No one ever talks to me on social websites like Facebook and some people often ignore. I have been told before that people don't like me and that they just put up with me. I don't know what to do anymore I feel useless and isolated from everyone else and I'm sick of my life.

[Iohuihj]

Hey, I feel the exact same way, I know what you're going through. Maybe you should talk to someone, a school counselor or guidance teacher, because it sounds to me like you're bottling all your frustration up and it'll just get worse and worse if you do that; things get skewed in your own mind, just letting everything off your chest and getting an outside perspective will help enormously. I think you could do with building your confidence, then you won't be an "easy target", as you've described, and people won't pick on you anymore 'cause you'll be giving off this "don't f*** with me" vibe. My so called friends used to just say things like that to me as well, I've never understood why they enjoyed being so nasty and horrible, or what they gained from it. I'd say make some new friends but I know it isn't always that easy. Maybe try doing something outside of school, like a club or something, and make friends that way. Or you could try making new friends online, but obviously be extremely careful if you ever choose to meet up 'cause there are some weirdos out there! As for your friends at school, I think maybe you're taking what they say to heart, and if what they're saying is just mindless nastiness then there's no benefit to that. Don't let them get to you, don't value their opinion so much, don't waste energy on things that aren't important and don't make the effort with people who don't make the effort with you. All that frustration you feel, just let it go, 'cause they're not worth getting angry over, they're not worth your time or your thoughts (and one excellent way of letting go of that frustration would be to talk it through with a therapist, by the way). Try talking to some new people and you'll see that not everyone is as horrible as your friends right now, and that you are liked and are a worthy person. Love yourself, look after yourself, it doesn't matter what other people think. Do things that make you happy. Don't let yourself dwell on their negativity, you don't need that in your life. Chin up!

I'll stop now lol, sorry it's so long, I just felt I could relate so much. Take it from me, things do get better, just take everything one step at a time, and stay positive. If you ever want to chat you can message me. Good luck!

I've sent you an email, here for you if you need to someone to talk to! xx

[Joshua Hicks]

Lohuihj it's me on another email account how do I message you on here it would be great to talk to someone how feels the same as me

[painter]

Wise up Sonny boy get off the X box and all the stupid social web sites where the average age is about 7 and start acting your own age, instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you come across on this posting like a 3ry old having a hissy fit because your dummy's fallen out of your pram.
Instead of all this "Oh woe is me" c**p find a different social scene/join a youth club/scouts/rangers or whatever but stop feeling sorry for yourself because nobody else does.
Next time you post something on here make sure it's something positive because your giving us all the Heebie Jeebies.

[Jessa]

They are bullying you by making you feel isolated and alone. If they carry on you should tell someone because they have no right. Just try to ignore them as much as you can and I'm sure you do have loads friends so keep telling yourself how wrong they are.
If you're current friends aren't making yourself feel good about yourself try making new friends, talk to people who seem nice and actually care about you.

[mirandaulrich]

I will be youer friend and talk to you @cupcakelover118844 that's my twitter if you what to talk but yeah we all have are problems usually when people call you that that means there saying that about theam selfs. You should make a twitter if you don't have one.