Should I let him go................................................?

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I met this guy in college, just a year younger than me. I would notice his eyes widening when he saw me, to be honest I am used to it (being of a different race in a xenophobic country).

Slowly I notice myself having a crush on him. Insanity is the word I would use here.... I went on rage mode and stalk his fb, twitter and ask.fm (where I would ask him questions regarding his feelings). And turns out he had given another girl a valentine gift.

Rage mode alert, I was screaming, crying like a b-tch (rihanna- we found love), my heart felt so empty and angry, and sad.

So I decided to let him go.

To my suprise he went on the same rage mode, he would send song on his twitter refering to me (taylor swift- I know you were trouble) and making reference to my status.

I am in utter shock, when he suddenly say that he had actually loved me knowing just a few weeks ago, he had given another girl a valentine gift (she lived in a different country) saying that he would never loved another the way he loved this girl (one of the reason why I'm letting him go)

How could he do that? If that girl (who rejected him fyi) ends up dating him. Is he going to mend my broken heart. Because I am MAD for him.


TL;DR: Help a confuse girl.......before she lost herself.
@wyomugs: yes, terribly sorry about that, but yahoo has been empty for a while. And the thing is, he does loves me. we love each other to a level where I could actually feel his suicidal thoughts, and he my sadness. People would say we are very much like heathclift and catherine. And we do sadly, in a toxic level.

[Schuyler]

Neither one of you is ready for a relationship; together you would be a disaster. Stay on your own until you mature to the point where you are able to control yourself.

[Jen]

You sound like a pot of water ready to boil over.
You were never his Girlfriend, so just let it go.
Grow up a little, then look for a friend. At this point, you sound pretty immature.

[wyomugs]

Love needs to be TWO-way. If not, it's not love. Don't just let him go... THROW him away!


BTW... this really is not an ETIQUETTE question... but thanks for asking!


Have a polite day.
Etiquette takes over where laws end.

[Common Sense]

I think you need time to grow up before you begin seeing boys on a romantic level. You sound like a hopeless romantic searching for love where it does not exist. good luck.

You have no choice but to let him go. You never had him, sweetie.