Is this considered cheating?

[SARAH C]

I found out today that my boyfriend of 3 years has been going onto his female friend's facebook, taking her pictures, and putting them on 4chan to get them to photoshop the picture to make her look completely nude. I am really devastated by this, but is it considered cheating? I think and feel that it is, but he says it isn't.

[Maddie]

It's not cheating. That is just creepy. Ask him to stop that because it makes you feel uncomfortable.

[Aria]

hi lovely,

That is horrible... i would feel cheated to be honest, but consider the reasons he may have done it? was it to humiliate the girl , or was it for his personal pleasure?

[Gentlementiger997]

It's not technically cheating but I would consider it very inappropriate talk to your boyfriend seriously and tell him if he wants to be with you then he'll have to give up his friendship with his so called "female best friend."

[Been There]

Of course he says it isn't cheating .. he NEEDS it to not be cheating.

Do you want to know who defines what is cheating and what isn't? The other person.
If if feels like cheating to you, then it IS cheating.
And if he wants to keep you, he will stop doing things that make you feel this way.

His choice. You've told him how you feel, and he either wants to keep you or he doesn't.
Don't get sidetracked by the argument of whether or not it is cheating .. that's just to keep you off-balance.
The fact is that YOU need him to NOT do that .. and if he won't stop, then he doesn't want you very much, and you need to leave and find someone who DOES want you enough.

[Missmarilyn]

My first question is what is he doing with those pictures once they are photo edited?

Ok. This would not be classified as cheating, but it is disrespectful to you. I think you need to understand the reasoning behind the action. Maybe there is something you need to address in your own relationship (not to sound bad).

Boys will be boys. I think you will be hard pressed to find a guy who doesn't look at another woman occasionally, just like we look at men, but this takes it one step further.

You should also ask yourself how is he treating you.

Hope that helps hun. Good luck

[Cristian]

No, it's not cheating. But it's still not right. If it bothers you, tell him. If he really loved you, he would stop. If not, and he keeps saying it's not cheating, tell him what I said. If that doesn't work, I think it would be time to leave. Find somebody that will respect your wishes, and won't do anything to make you fell like this