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What do I do?! Please help?
04-28-2014, 08:15 PM
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What do I do?! Please help?
So here's the deal.. (I'm 16 by the way)

My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me because he wasn't happy in the relationship and we both had a lot of stress going on. I lost my virginity to him so I was heartbroken and cried for like a week straight. We met up to see if there was still something there because we missed each other, but it was a little strange and he decided he wanted to stay friends.

Staying friends, for me, was confusing so I told him I didn't think communication was a great idea. We ended up having an argument anyway, and haven't spoken since.

It's been a month since we broke up and I met someone new online. This guy is a year younger, is really attractive and has like everything in common with me. We talked on Facebook and snapchat and hit it off really well, so I asked him on a date and we've agreed to meet next weekend (in a public place with friends, I'm sensible).

You see, I really felt OVER my ex after we had an argument but then last night, after I asked this guy out, I had a sexual dream about my ex. And now I feel really guilty, like I shouldn't be moving on if I'm dreaming about my ex... yet I know that getting back with him isn't possible and I don't particularly want to anyway.

Does this mean I shouldn't go on the date? I don't want this poor guy to be a 'rebound' although I genuinely think we might have something, and he seems really cute.

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04-28-2014, 08:19 PM
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Dreams doesn't mean anything at all. Dreams are random. Go on a date and just have fun.

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04-28-2014, 08:21 PM
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Just go with him and if u have nothing to talk about u can say u had a dream with ur ex although u absolutely have no intention of getting back. At least it will get off ur boob I mean chest. If he&#x27;s a nice guy I&#x27;m sure he will listen and that way u guys could be more open to each other.
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04-28-2014, 08:30 PM
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I think you should still go on your date. Its better that your moving on and not still in the past.
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04-28-2014, 08:33 PM
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HI anonymously me
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