Is a phone call a good way to ask a girl out?

[immensecobweb589]

So I really like this girl. We had a mutual friend over Facebook so I messaged her saying I would love to get to know her and introducing myself. She was nice but didn't seem interested. A month later I messaged her again, this time we started talking about her activism organization and she was much more receptive. We exchanged numbers and I even met up with her for coffee to discuss the organization.

Over the last two months we have talked a bit and I know enough about her to want to go out with her. But now the conversation seems stuck on her group. I have kind of steered it in a more social direction by making her a playlist with some music recommendations. Which she loved, her words " this playlist made my life great!"

I got tickets to a show of one of the bands from the playlist which I know she loved. I even saw it on her favorites playlist.

Thing is besides us never really getting personal, she is really busy and I doubt I'll get a face to face with her before the weekend. I think we would have a great time and really want to go with her. What should I do?

[Steve11]

No - in person is the best.

[casperbrooks]

Face to face is best. It shows confidence and values.

[Wendy]

I think a phone call is a good one, it's better than over Facebook or whatever cause it makes it less awkward, you can have a decent conversation with her then talk to her about relationships, leading to your big question. In person is good but possibly more awkward, not to say she would reject you but if it were a possibility what do you do? Run off or something? I have faith in you!