Does he want to be friends again?

[Samantha]

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!

My ex and I got into this HUGE fight 2 months ago, where mean things were said on both sides and I thought he didn't want to be friends or whatever.
We didn't talk for 2 months.

We play in the same soccer league on sundays, and 3 weeks ago, I saw him and tried talking to him but all he said was "sorry, can't talk"


I was blocked on Facebook.
So I guess he unblocked me

Until yesterday, when I messaged me on Facebook, saying "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…."
So we were kind of texting for a little bit but then he stopped responding… lol

But he wasn't being mean at all when we were texting… He wrote "lol" and "haha"
I'm not worried that he didn't respond… But it's weird haha

Why would he message me?? And then stop responding after a little? Lol

And when him and I were friends, there would be times where we would be in the middle of a convo and he'd stop responding

I definitely don't think he has a new girlfriend.

So I messaged him on Facebook today and said "so since you obviously won't say anything, until you hear what I wanted to say - I don't understand why that argument (the one I apologized for) made us stop being friends or whatever lol" and he hasn't "read" it yet (you know how Facebook says if the person has read it?)


Do you think he is reconsidering being friends since it's been a couple of months since the argument?
Do you think he was thinking about me? I kind of do..

[Summer]

It's so hard to try and figure out what others are thinking, but as an objective person looking in, here's what I would say.

You guys got into a fight and he blocked you from facebook. It must have been a pretty bad fight- and the missing piece I was wondering was- did he block you because he was mad at you, or did he block you because you were saying things on his profile or instant messaging him all the time? Sometimes when friendships end people do weird things on facebook (not saying you did, just wondering if you guys were 'facebook fighting' lol)

With that being said- him sending you that message is a great sign that he wants to be friends and develop an open communication. In my guy friend relationships the 'lol' or 'one word texts' mean one of two things- they are busy and not interested in talking to me, or they are mad at me and trying to convey that they are still angry with me by trying to upset me with abruptness. I don't know which scenario applies to you. If it's the second or latter one, then I would say he's probably wanting to rekindle romantic ties with you and this is his way of getting more attention. If he's just busy, then maybe he just wants to be friends.

Either way, it's an excellent sign that he messaged you and at worst, sounds like he wants to be acquainted with you in the future.

Good luck