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Should I go out with her.?
04-28-2014, 08:58 PM
Post: #1
Should I go out with her.?
Hi,
I'm a 20 year old university student who works with all females about my age. Either UNI themselves or in twelfth grade. Since I've been there many girls have told me that others like me or think im cool/funny/cute and all of that. I have never acted on it before simply because I think it could ruin what i have going at this prime job. I'd rather just be funny and flirt with these girls than actually have relations with them...you know? Anyways, this new girl just added me on Facebook and asked me to go out with her sometime. I said sure, and told her i would like to take her to the beach near my house for a coffee. I did agree just because i didn't want to be a douche and say no. Plus she is very hot. The catch however is that I literally have never spoken to her in person before and know absolutely nothing about her. I just have a bad feeling that it will be incredibly awkward. lol... I'm really just looking for tips for how to handle a blind date correctly. Please don't say be yourself, because i know that, and that's how i have so many girls with crushes on me...
*Also, I have never been with a coworker, can anyone tell me if this is as much of a rush as I think it would be? I mean it could be really hot, right?
Thanks!
Alexander, from SoCal.

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04-28-2014, 09:03 PM
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just ask her questions about what music she likes or if she's seen the latest movies or something that interests you, find something you have in common and talk about it, look at her facebook likes it could give you some insight as to what might be interesting to bring up in conversation with her, talk about work, school, future plans and don't sweat it, you'll be fine Smile

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04-28-2014, 09:07 PM
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i have been on blind dates before.i remember the first two dates (different guys),it was so awkward.i could not even speak a word.best part was the first guy insulted me saying that his ex was hot etc.he asked me if i regretted coming to the date,i said no.when i asked him,he just kept quiet and smiled.imagine how bad i felt.second date was a double date.i had more fun cause my best friend was there.i just looked at her and she seemed so free with the guys.she spoke whatever was in her mind and that was how i learnt to speak to guys.i know you dont want me saying this but just be yourself and take control.it is as awkward for other girls as it is for you.if you are too quiet,she might just find you boring.talk and give her the chance to give her her opinion.
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