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I need help!?? i really would like some advice !(:?
04-28-2014, 08:59 PM
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I need help!?? i really would like some advice !(:?
so, i really like this guy that goes to my school!.. and he is such a cutie but im scared to go up and talk to him.. we haven't talked before.. and we have no classes together.. i don't want to seem like a weirdo going up and randomly talking to him.. but heres another problem.. i also like this other kid.. and he just barely talking to me over Facebook because we don't go to the same high school.. he was saying i was beautiful, and that my smiles amazing.. etc.. but problem he doesn't go to my school and i kinda like him to.. but i don't know!?? HELP please!!!!!

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04-28-2014, 09:03 PM
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date the one that doesn't go to ur school because he likes u if he's calling u those names and u can talk on facebook anyways

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04-28-2014, 09:04 PM
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See which one you have more in common with. Cute doesn&#x27;t mean sqwat if you don&#x27;t have nothing in common. One may be cute and shallow as hell and the other maybe cute and down to earth. Good luck.
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04-28-2014, 09:14 PM
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The guy on FB isn't really in your grasp. The guy at school is. Keep them both and hit on the guy at school. He will be where you develop self confidence without HIDING behind a computer screen. Plus he is near by and easier to work with and engage.
Fortunately, just like you he is Inexperienced, Lacks Of Confidence, Shy, Scared, Insecure, Fears Rejection. ALL OF US go thru this. Ever wonder WHY your Weaknesses are stronger than your Desires? Its because you are thinking with your Heart and feeling with your Brain. Your HEART wants them, but your HEAD tells you "You are not good enough". The person you desire, is doing the same thing you are because their weaknesses are stronger too. The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company. IF YOU FAKE having confidence When you see him or any guy you might like, Smile and go say HI. It doesn't matter if he likes you or not. You are just being friendly. Ask him a simple question OR compliment him on something of his. It doesn't matter if he likes you or not. You are just being friendly. Tell him a fun or funny story or about a movie you saw or book you read. It doesn't matter if he likes you or not. You are just being friendly. When he gets use to you talking to him, he will become comfortable with you being around him. Ask him to join you for lunch or ice cream after school. It doesn't matter if he likes you or not. You are just being friendly. When you get to where you are together with him as much as YOU WANT TO BE, it'll be the same as being boyfriend/girlfriend even if no one says it. You don't really want the TITLE of boyfriend/girlfriend, you want his company.
One day a girl may come along and catch his eye, but if she can't make him smile and enjoy her company like you do, he will recognize who you are to him. The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company. He has never met a girl with ability and confidence like you.
He is as inexperienced as you are. He is shy like you are. He doesn't know YOU like him or that you are afraid of him, so just BE FRIENDLY. No one will BLAME you for Smiling at them. No one will HATE you for Complimenting them on something you like about them.
Stepping up is completely up to you. All the advice and information given to you is worthless if you are too scared to try or to use it. It will ALWAYS be OK to be afraid. It is NOT EVER OK to let your Fears Control You. You're wasting your time, if you are okay with being a "scary cat chicken". What is really going to SUCK for you, is when you see him with someone else and it could have been you.
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