My ex said he misses me, but won't go further?

[Profoundwrist595]

Okay so, I was the one who broke up with him because I liked this guy but then it turned out he was just playing around. Anyway, It had been 4 months we haven't talk and during the last few months I've been talking with some guys but I don't feel anything like, I still miss my ex. I still sexually attracted to my ex.

So it was my birthday yesterday, he texted me 'Hey! Happy birthday, enjoy' and I replied back 'Thank you so much ' Then he replied me 'I kinda miss you tho but yeah, enjoy'. I told him, I miss him too and then we kept talking all day, he said he still misses me and looking at my instagram, facebook for the update haha.

So as it was my fault for leaving him, I asked him if he wanted to get back? He said, 'nah, not at the moment because I got so many exams and assignments to do and we can just being like this, at the moment, you know wot I mean?' so I pretend to 'understand' and said 'okay, alright, I'll just wait till' the time actually comes'. After work, he asked me for skype like we skype and he was playing game and i was texting, we talked and stuff, just like last time we went out. We skyped for a bit like 10-15 minutes? Because he had to get back with his studying and as his parents are going to check his exams by tomorrow.

I still have feeling for him but I don't know what he mean by that? And what should I do now? I didn't want to text him back because I don't want to bother him with his work and I'm totally lost.

[Chirp]

It is very clear. You dumped him for someone else who wasn't even into you. He doesn't trust you because you taught him not to. He is trying to earn good grades and learn and obey his parents. Don't interfere with that. Support that. While he is doing that, you should do it to. Study. Obey your parents. Many boys will come and go, but your education will stay with you. Next time you talk, tell him that you admire that he is working hard in his classes and studies. Tell him you are sorry that you hurt his feelings and you'd value his forgiveness even if he decides not to date you again. Tell him that you still like him, but if he decides not to date you again, you would still like to have a good friendship. And if you do date again, you will support him putting his studies and respecting his parents as his first priority. Suggest that if you hang out as friends or if you date, you can spend the first hour of every hang-out studying side by side.

[Hannah]

Get back with him. You make the move since you dumped him. He doesn't want to seem pushy or desperate, so you have to make the move. Get back with him.