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What should I doo?
04-28-2014, 09:19 PM
Post: #1
What should I doo?
Okay there is this shy guy, who stares at me all the time. His face gets red and he always looks away when I look at him. He doesn't talk to me, and his sisters always watch me. He will position himself so he can watch me walk away (I saw it in a relection). He smiled at me the other day, but I got shy and quickly looked down and smiled to myself awkwardly. I was afraid he would take that as rejection but the staring continued. However, he randomly just liked one of his exes from two years ago, pictures on Instagram. He did this once before (on a school break too) and I over reacted and tried to make a move on him. He reciprocated, but we kinda stopped the obvious flirting. He doesn't really like girls pictures. Did he do this to try and get a reaction out of me? My theory is that he does this on school breaks so I can't just return his glances, I actually have to put in effort. It's also really close to prom at my school. Did he want her attention for that? Just for reference I don't think I'm being used to make her jealous, all three of us aren't in the same place at the times I pass him and he stares. Please explain without saying just ask him.

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04-28-2014, 09:22 PM
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Well I know the exact problem now that I have read the whole description. First and foremost I know that its tough being a girl and everything since its so hard to understand boys and their signals and signs but I'm here to explain to you what the problem is.

1st: I think you may have over analyzed the instagram thing that took place. Just because a boy likes a girls instagram post doesn't mean that he likes her.

2nd: His face gets red because he is what you call a shy guy. Now his face gets red because one of two different things. One being the fact that your looking him in the eye and he feels intimidated. Two being the fact that he is too nervous to look at you without blushing.

3rd: If your going to succeed in the dating world your going to have to learn the skill on how to not over think everything. Just because a guy talks to another girl or likes a post on Facebook, and or Instagram doesn't mean that he is immediately attracted to them.

4th: He likes you but he doesn't know how to approach you. So instead of approaching you he looks at you and he admires you because he feels like he will be rejected right on the spot.

5th: If you like him then your going to have to give him a couple signs that will point out that you are interested.

Tips:

Next time he looks at you in class look back at him and shoot a wink at him twice and then look down and blush.

After you do this wait until you see him another day in the week and do the same thing except this time you need to look at him with a gaze and hold it.

Then the next class after that you want to look over at him and whisper over to your friend and giggle where he can hear it.

After this is all said and done he will approach you within one to two days.

Good Luck Smile

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